ok here goes please excuse the improper punctuation i’m just gonna let it flow…my fiance and i have been together for 4 years and his mother is just a b**** from hell has hated me from day one always making snide remarks and backhanded comments about me the worst part is that she and the x are bf the x cheated on my fiance with a man for 2+ years then married him weeks after her divorce yet in mil eyes she can do no wrong when i confront fiance about these issues he says just ignore her that his mom has always been that way and that he just lets it roll off his back well i can’t you see she always says that she is the type to say what she thinks problem is most of her true feelings aren’t told to me but to the x she has even gone as far as to call me high and mighty please whatever anyone who knows me knows that i am one of the most down to earth people there is but unlike mil i am honest so if she ever asks me a question i give a direct to her face honest answer which she then takes back to the x and says that i said _ instead that she asked and my answer was _ she has been telling anyone that would listen that we will never last and it just goes on and on she doesn’t even know me she never gave me a chance she’s so stuck on wanting fiance back with cheating homewrecking whore of an x wife that she can’t see past it at times i feel i’m ready to just walk away it’s too exhausting although i love my fiance dearly i sometimes feel that i try so hard mostly out of spite for his b**** of a mother……………HELP
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2 Responses to “WTF?!”
Hi Kate
How dare she!!! Dont let her win. If you love him- make sure he knows that this is not acceptable. He is to take a stand. She doesn’t have to like you but she does have to respect her sons wife. My husband married a woman very much like his mother the 1st time and cannot stand either of them. Rest assured your fiance is aware of what he does’t want in his life and that would be anyone like hsi exwife. Let his mother and her be friends they deserve each other!! My MIL gave me a family portrait of hubby, his ex and the kids when we bought our 1st home together- PRICELESS!! I said thankyou adn that I’d keep it for the kids- I felt like smashing it over her head!!
You be in control give her noone to fight with and hopefully soon enough she’ll find someone else to upset
Good luck
Jane
After you are married it will only get worse. And the wonderful ex is not going away either. Your boyfriend needs to grow a spine or you need to move on.