What do I do?

by Stacey on 07/16 @ 4:23pm

I married my husband Jan 07, Even when me and my hubby dated 6 years ago…my MIL did not like me. When we got engaged she hated me. Now that we have a daughter she tried controlling me. Telling me how to take care of her and stuff. She would call my husband overseas and tell him that I’m cheating on him and that my daughter isnt his. I don’t know what her problem is. I try to make amends and keep peace. I love her…I really do, but I don’t like her. My husband doesn’t even like to talk to her because of the way she treats me. It’s hard because she doesn’t get to see her granddaughter because we live in a different state. That makes our relationship even tougher. I want to make amends with her and be DIL I should be, but she hates me one day then likes me another day. What should I do?

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2 Responses to “What do I do?”

mommy05 said on 07/21/08 @ 5:12pm

o.k. you are fighting a loosing battle. i know that you really want to get along with her and want your daughter to be a part of her life, but in the long run, it’s better off this way. my mil is the same way with the likes me one day and hates me the next. you will eventually get to the point i am at and say forget it, i don’t care anymore. really, it’s her problem anyways. she has already driven her son away and doesn’t care. if she cared about your baby, she would be changing the way she acts. she is just a selfish person. just continue to do the best you can and take care of your baby. that’s all you can do. good luck!