Mother-in-Law HELL

I am really struggling with my FMIL. Bit of background, my H2B’s father died about 6 years ago. His mum has never moved on or shown interest in doing so either. I met him about 3 years ago and we got engaged last year. We live together and whilst we are an argumentative couple, recently it is getting really seriously bad, and with only 65 days till the wedding day I am starting to freak out.
Basically FMIL moved abroad last year to start afresh, something both myself and H2B supported. She is not moving back to where we are based until next year. She often comes to stay and I do genuinely like having her in the house. The problem is this time she wants to come and stay literally during the weeks preceding our wedding and then afterwards when we are newlyweds! I have said I think this is…

Wedding Day-
I’ll just give the basic overview. It will be twelve years ago next month, but her antics from that day are still fresh in everyone’s mind.

1. Threw a fit when she found out that he son couldn’t walk her down the aisle because he was the groom and would be at the front with with the rabbi, waiting for his bride. She then had a crying fit on the side and sent other daughter-in-law to come talk to me about it and said  that she extremely upset…could my future hubby walk her down the aisle…I firmly said, NO…it is our day…not her day. More tears for the rest of the day, but I held my ground.
2. Maybe because she was ticked off or because she has no tact whatsoever…Right before my mom was about to walk down the aisle my MIL said to my mother, “Ohh, who did your perm? When when mom said the name of the salon, my MIL told…

Feeling that I am stuck between a jagged rock and similarly hard place — I absolutely loathe my FMIL and it actually brings sickness to me to think of her as a human. She has tried everything to break up her son and I including stalking, harassing, put downs, bullying, thieving from her own mother and lying about it to say its me, and it got so bad that we actually had to report her to the police for harassment. We lived in Ireland at the time of all this kicking off, and not only did we have to move in the middle of the night to a place we couldnt tell anyone about (because they lived down the road and the village was incestuous), we actually left Ireland all togethersoon after and I havent been back since. Horrific, and if I see that woman ever again, it will be…

My mother in law is psycho. She will lock her self in her room and threaten to harm herself if my fiance doesn’t talk to her once a day. She text messages him about 50 times a day with random I LOVE U’s and always ends it with love mom. We know your his mom and you don’t have to tell us this. Last night tops it all he works night shit from 8pm to 8am well he is going there on Friday (mind us this is Monday night)to go to his DR. She flipped out because we aren’t spending the night at her nasty gross house. She just saw him the sat before for my bridal shower and we went to dinner with her. She went in her room locked the door and popped some pills passed out.Her husband (his step father) then calls and lays another guilt trip…

At my bridal shower, she told my mother’s best friend," he never asked me if I liked her…he just brought her home"! She said it loud enough for everyone to hear…

I have a terrible mother-in-law. I can give you a hundred stories, but I will make this short and simple. On our Wedding Day, my in-laws wanted one picture of the immediate family(excluding me–the bride). That didn’t seem wrong at all. However, this is the one and only picture of the wedding that they have displayed in their living room! I was extremely hurt and annoyed by this. But till this ten almost 10 years later, I have kept my mouth shut. I have tried to ignore her but it’s getting harder and harder. Even though I am not blood-related, I am married to her son. Yet, she treats me like an outsider. I have so many more stories but this hurt the most

Linda