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My boyfriend and I have been together a little over a year. I admit, we moved fast. I got pregnant early and our baby girl is now 6 months old. My boyfriends mother came to visit and she is staying for 3 weeks. I am so heartbroken, upset, angry, nervous, depressed… anything negative to name.. I’m it. I don’t mind his mother coming to visit and I’m not saying I hate her I just am having a very, very hard time dealing with this situation.

I will try my best to describe it. I really need help. I am at the point where I feel like leaving my relationship and I desperately need advice.

I take my son to school in the morning and its about a 20 min drive to get him there since we recently moved. The school year is about over so we decided not to transfer him until…

I know this is about MIL’s but I have a major father in law issue too. My husband and I got married last may(09). He and his family are very strong christians. I never grew up in a religous household.  To put a long story in a nut shell, the reception they had for us was the 2nd worst day of my life after my dad dying when I was a little girl. The whole dinner was about my husband.  Everyone wanted pix with just him, his family sang a song just about him, his parents flipped out because I just wanted it to be us at the head table. And to make things worse, all our gifts and cards were addressed to him. His girl cousins mocked me. And then his parents, specifically his dad said that I’m disrespectful to their family and walk all over everyones feet.  Bottom…

I have been having issues with my mil ever since before marriage. Now my husband and i went to counseling and he said that he would change and have more of a backbone where she is concerned, but the unthinkable happened 2 months after marriage. I got pregnant. During that time and before i tried to have a relationship with her but she constantly turned me down and now that the baby is here she expects for me to want the baby to spend time alone with her when she makes comments and things about me to people when im not around. I don’t want her saying things to my baby about me ever. what should i do?
Now the problem that persist is i expressed to her and other family members that i don’t feel comfortable with leaving my baby alone with anyone until he’s older but they can come…

Typically, my friends’ parents love me, so when my boyfriends mom seemed the slightest bit interested in me, it hurt, and I wasn’t sure how to handle it. My boyfriend and I have been dating since our junior year in high school, and we are so in love. But I’m not used to the awkwardness of having to deal with a mother that would rather I not exist.

He treats me like an angel and is rarely home, which makes her jealous because he always wants to be with me, rather than her. On top of that, the summer before our senior year, she kicked him out. Not by any fault of his own, but because she was angry and told him not to come back. So he didn’t. My step dad took him in and he lived with me for 8 weeks during the toughest time of his life. They…

Wedding Advice

by weddinghelp on 11/15 @ 10:28pm

Advice, Future Mother-in-law problems8 Comments

My fiance and I have been together for a long time now and are getting married soon. My future mother-in-law before the engagement was great. She was kind of pushy sometimes and dramatic but not unbearable. Since the wedding planning started, it has been hell. My parents are not in the best financial state right now so my fiance’s family is paying for most of the wedding, but me and my family will pitch in when we can. Well, she is already in the wedding business. She works at a bridal boutique. My fiance and I agreed that we want something simple and basic. I want silk flowers but she says she wants us to have real flowers, I say I want a couples shower but she wants us to have separate showers…the list goes on and on. Me and my fiance agree on just about everything, but she is…

She constantly hangs on him and scratches his back. She treats him like he’s a baby and he’s a grown man already. I feel like I can’t speak up. When our child was born she commented on how the baby had this and that from him and even some of his sister’s traits but what did I give the baby? Hello? I made it too! My husband is graduating from AF Basic Training and he only gets two days to see his newborn and his wife before leaving again. MIL called and told me about plans at her place for a BBQ when my husband has planned all along to spend it alone with me and baby. Well, when I told her this, she did not like it. She said he needs to see his sister. (She’s a grown woman with a family too) I am frustrated because we have…

Pushy Preschool teacher

by hellokitty86lady on 03/23 @ 3:45pm

Advice, Mother-in-law problems3 Comments

Before I get into the story/problem I would like to share a bit of my situation with everyone. I’m 24 and have a 16 month old little boy. I also have a wonderful man… however we share our home with his mother who is a preschool teacher. and she is ALL ABOUT PRESCHOOL. I personally think preschool is silly, because I’m a stay at home mom and can easily teach my little boy the things that he needs to learn. I myself did not go to preschool and was much more advanced than most of the children in my k5 class. Well a few days ago she brought home a registration sheet for preschool, my hubby and I talked about it and decided that our little boy would not be attending 2 year old preschool. well this NUT JOB started filling out the paper work for my son to go…

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