Mother-in-Law HELL

After 8 years of mental and verbal abuse and damm
right rudeness I decided to cut ties with my MIL. FIL and MIL and BIL ave not seen my child for 8 months (and have not asked to). They have blotted me out completely in their lives and now they have decided that they want a relationship with my husband who is happy to respond to this. My MIL nearly ruined my wedding. Has told me indepth stories of my husbands sexual one night stands and told me breastfeeding my child was wrong and that my child would end up in a coma as it was not getting enough food. On top of that she has slagge me off to my friends. Ignored and turned her back on me in conversations when I am sat at a table with her and now all my inlaws have nothing to do with me.

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Hi All,

Gosh, this woman jsut drives me up the wall – this year my hub and I decided to spend mother’s day with my mom for a change. So when we got back home DH gave MIL a call.. she sarcstically asks him (to make him feel bad) if he had a good time by my parents.. of course.. DH feeels guilty and tells her No, not really.. which maDe me go off my head as it was a lie and she manipulated him in saying what she wanted to hear.. she wanted some sort of satisfaction..

Anyway.. I did not bother to wish her happy mother’s day cause… DUH.. she is not my mother and never will be.. she put me through hell why do I need to wish her Happy Mother’s Day.. ? So now since then,(3 WEEKS AGO) she will phone my DH whenever we together (after work…

My DH is extremely emotionally attached to his family and I feel like I come last in our marriage. Here’s an example. If he’s away from them he will get sad, depressed and call them almost every day. But when he’s away from me he won’t call me as often and if I call he’s mostly too busy to talk. Or when he’s on the phone with them, that’s when I hear about his day at work or about something unusual or interesting that’s happened to him. I really feel left out.
We used to live with the ILS (biggest mistake of my life) but moved to a different state recently and he’s always in contact with them as if there’s no tomorrow. We have a baby coming and I wish he would realize that the baby and I are his priority. I don’t know how to make him see what…

Dearest MIL,
I tried so hard to include you in everything that DH and I were going through..our wedding, the youngest being born, dinners, etc. You refused everything. You lied and told FIL that you weren’t told about the wedding. You ignored me the entire time I was pregnant, but as soon as you “figured” I’d be pregnant long enough, you all of a sudden became “interested” in the baby. You forgot I had another child all together, not once did you ever ask about him, give him a toy, ask how he or I were ever doing. You told me I was a bad mother, told everyone I was being rude and not allowing you to see the baby. I told you NO DRINKING when you came over to my house and the VERY FIRST TIME you ever came over which was to see the baby you were drunk!!! You…