Mother-in-Law HELL

OMG! I swear she would have to be the bossiest person that I have ever met. Even though I am not engaged to my bf just as of yet, he still considers me apart of the family and in the sense he is as the same at my home. BUT! When I comes down to his sister in law, my god the claws and the beast have finally emerged. At the start, (over a year ago) she is fine, she liked me, or so I thought, and included me in things as she would, but when his nephew was born last november I noticed just how much of a really bitchy person she could be. She was controling and is so controlling over her husband, his brother, that she is even telling him that he can’t play his fav summer sport unless he is in the same team as his…

She’s not in prison, she’s never even been charged with anything, but I’m pretty sure my MIL is a black widow.

My husband and I have been married a little over 6 years, and I feel VERY lucky that I’ve only had to see the woman twice in that time, so I can’t really complain about her being a bad mom-in-law to me personally…but the woman’s nuts, and I wouldn’t wanna have anything to do with her anyway.

My husband is the youngest of 12 kids. In fact, he’s the youngest by nearly two decades…he was a menopause baby. Both his parents had been married before and raised kids with their respective former spouses before getting together a little later in life and having him. So, he’s the only child of both his parents, and his closest sibling was graduating high school when he was born.

His dad married and divorced once before…

My Mother in Law has some strange issues. First she seems to like to control all of her children grown children and bosses around my husband’s dad all day long. I don’t know how that poor man deals. She still controls my husband who is 32.

A bullet point of issues:

For our Wedding she did not want our wedding to be in the state we live, and if it was not in her state she would not help pay- thankful we worked this one out

After the wedding she would not let us start our “honeymoon”, she wanted to continue being with us

We have been married for one year and they live across the country and we have seen the four times

When we went on vacation during at the same time different hotels we had just walked into our room when they called and said they were waiting for us in the…

My husband is in the military and we just recently got married this summer. He and I were only together for about 6 months before he was deployed to Iraq. While he was deployed, MIL and I spent a lot of time together and became pretty close. I really enjoyed spending time with her, but was taken aback by some comments she would make from time to time. I thought it was normal, but quickly began to realize it was not. It was like she was very slyly (yet completely obviously) trying to insult me to my face.

As things progressed, the comments started getting worse and more frequent and I began to notice some tendencies of a person that I would label as completely INSANE. I remember specifically that as we were on base waiting for my husband (then boyfriend) to get off the plane from Iraq, she felt…

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half now. We’re both in college  and attend the same university. We’re also from the same town and high school. I’m his first girlfriend.

When I first met his mother, she seemed nice enough. She was friendly and invited me over for dinner relatively often. Soon, things turned slightly sour as she enforced “family time” in her house. My boyfriend was to have at least 4 dinners at home per week and spend “quality family time” with her, his father, and his brother at her discretion. His father and younger brother are both laid-back and try to avoid getting involved in her battles with him. They had several family functions over the course of the summer, several of which my BF was allowed to invite friends to, just not me.

Throughout the whole summer, my 18 year-old boyfriend had a…

Now, let me start this post of by saying that I love my MIL. She has her flaws and annoyances, but I love her very much. She’s sweet and loyal with nothing but good intentions. However, she’s also manipulative and VERY opinionated. And if we don’t do what is in accordance with her “opinion.” She gets upset.

And I also think I should add that we have only been married for 11 months.

She is manipulative, controlling and MUST have her way. She feels as if she needs to control our lives and know what we’re both doing at all hours of the day. And, control every decision we make.

For example, we were looking to purchase a grill. It was $350. But, it had all the features my husband wanted. Like an idiot, I printed out the paper and showed it to her the next time her and I met up for…

Ok, So my husband and I went to school together, ruffly 7 years of being friends. I had a few years of hell with an ex but had a beautiful baby in the meantime, then He stepped in and picked up the pieces of my heart and saved us. I dated him for a year and he proposed on my birthday, so sweet I know! And then I met his rents which were very kind at the time…at that time I was in college and handle’n a new baby, had No idea what I was in for. I had heard from his other family members that the MIL was a complete Nutt and to watch my back…well I gave her the benefit of a doubt. Until the engagement party came into view, she didnt want to help, but wanted to attend. I had a bridal shower at a friends new…