Mother-in-Law HELL

I know from reading on this site that there are many DILs out there that have the most horrible mother in laws around. And Im not saying my tops the list but she is a very SLY FMIL.
Well to start it off, she seems to think because my bf has a large wagon of a car that we will do just about ANYTHING for her! Even thou she has a son that has the same damn car and lives right across the road! Whats even worse is, my bf will do anything to make his mum happy. And I mean anything. And sometimes I think..”omg! What the hell!?”
And she isnt just sly with him, she is sly with me! Like last year she got married. And let me just say, even though this is her second wedding doesnt mean she has to be all b****y about it, she still had…

I need to vent so desperately.

My b!tch MIL is a pig. I cannot stand her manipulations. We went to spend the weekend at my parents house (we visited MIL on Thursday). All inlaws were getting together to watch the World cup finale together and we were not sure what we wanted to do, go to a fan park or just at home coz of the cold weather.

We said that if we go we will take MIl’s kids with us, they teenagers. We did not go so we did not pick them up. Yesterday MIL phone DH to complain that we did not visit over the weekend and we ignore his siblings and she was simply upset that DH spent the weekend at my parents…

I am on the verge on calling her and telling her what I think of her and her trashy life and manipulations. But that will simply upset…

Would love to get your thoughts and if anyone is struggling with a step MIL. About 4 yrs. ago we moved near my husband’s father and step mom (he was not raised by them). It was a big mistake! She was nice at first but she treats us like crap. She told me she doesn’t want to hear my problems (which are few except for her). Pretty much she doesn’t give a s**t. She has told a friend right in front of me she has 2 grandchildren, leaving mine out. She told me I shouldn’t have another child because my husband would have to get another job. I was considering daycare which she told me in the past I could make a lot of money. She says you can’t make any money doing that. I think she doesn’t want to be bothered, could be an inconvenience for her. The weird…

So this is my 3rd post now, this is the disrespecteddil here. Long suffering and wanting to suffer no more from mother in law hell. So last night, DH tells me that “nobody’s perfect” and “So what she fed our LO a chocking hazard, they lived didn’t they” and wonderful quotes like that. He wants to set up an “intervention” where me and her and him sit down and “Chat” about “MY FEELINGS” Correction-an intervention where they can gang up on me, as usual!
I am the mother of this man’s child. I am breastfeeding and have had to put up with extreme levels of stress since pregnancy due to this MIL. MIL wanted to breastfeed MY child, threatened to actually do it, when my milk didn’t come in right away (had a c section, I supplemented with formula). She made comments about how its so easy I couldnt have been…

I have no idea. Previously privately or someone privately but I’m present, she complains how much she hates me. Now right infront of everyone she announced she hates me. It’s crazy.
Just once at work (unfortunately we work in the same company due to her constant nagging to her son for me to join) it was late and I was going off, she had gone overseas and unexpectedly she returned and I bumped into her at the stairwell. I smiled at her but didn’t say anything. She didn’t say anything. And I went off.
You might think all is well.
NO…
The next day at work she berated me in front of the whole office. For “disrepecting” her. In a stairwell with nobody around. There’s no loss of face for her. Nobody saw anything. But infront of all staff she chose to scream at me. From then on our relationship is worse than just…

This is an update from my earlier post “FMIL Disrespects and Controls, DH takes her side” under FMIL problems….I got many helpful comments and thank you posters, I feel so alone it helps to hear from you. Since Dh thinks I am to blame, and FMIL does nothing wrong in his eyes.

I do not want anything to do with FMIL. FMIL has basically ruined my life. My only child and she tries to be more motherly instead of grandmother and she has tried to completely take over. SHe has tried to take all my “firsts” with my only baby, and ruined my first Mothers Day..she took my baby away from me so her and Dh could have their own mothers day celebration with him, her and FSIL in babys room while I lay crying in my bed for my baby unable to move from csection days before. She force fed…

Hi there,
My husband and I had a huge fight beause of his addiction to Playstation. Ever since this thing came into our lives, I have been acting like a nagging bitch because he is not fulfilling his responsibilities.

We had a huge fight in front of his mother and told her that I called her a bitch (which I did and am very sorry for it) It was years ago when our relationship was sour but my mother – in – law and I have a great relationship now. However, the fact that she knows I called her a bitch is a big issue and she must be resenting me. I have not seen her ever since the fight.

Also, my husband disgraced me in front of her by telling me that I have no respect and does not want to be married to me anymore. He does not see me in…