Mother-in-Law HELL

So this is my 3rd post now, this is the disrespecteddil here. Long suffering and wanting to suffer no more from mother in law hell. So last night, DH tells me that “nobody’s perfect” and “So what she fed our LO a chocking hazard, they lived didn’t they” and wonderful quotes like that. He wants to set up an “intervention” where me and her and him sit down and “Chat” about “MY FEELINGS” Correction-an intervention where they can gang up on me, as usual!
I am the mother of this man’s child. I am breastfeeding and have had to put up with extreme levels of stress since pregnancy due to this MIL. MIL wanted to breastfeed MY child, threatened to actually do it, when my milk didn’t come in right away (had a c section, I supplemented with formula). She made comments about how its so easy I couldnt have been…

I have no idea. Previously privately or someone privately but I’m present, she complains how much she hates me. Now right infront of everyone she announced she hates me. It’s crazy.
Just once at work (unfortunately we work in the same company due to her constant nagging to her son for me to join) it was late and I was going off, she had gone overseas and unexpectedly she returned and I bumped into her at the stairwell. I smiled at her but didn’t say anything. She didn’t say anything. And I went off.
You might think all is well.
NO…
The next day at work she berated me in front of the whole office. For “disrepecting” her. In a stairwell with nobody around. There’s no loss of face for her. Nobody saw anything. But infront of all staff she chose to scream at me. From then on our relationship is worse than just…

This is an update from my earlier post “FMIL Disrespects and Controls, DH takes her side” under FMIL problems….I got many helpful comments and thank you posters, I feel so alone it helps to hear from you. Since Dh thinks I am to blame, and FMIL does nothing wrong in his eyes.

I do not want anything to do with FMIL. FMIL has basically ruined my life. My only child and she tries to be more motherly instead of grandmother and she has tried to completely take over. SHe has tried to take all my “firsts” with my only baby, and ruined my first Mothers Day..she took my baby away from me so her and Dh could have their own mothers day celebration with him, her and FSIL in babys room while I lay crying in my bed for my baby unable to move from csection days before. She force fed…

Hi there,
My husband and I had a huge fight beause of his addiction to Playstation. Ever since this thing came into our lives, I have been acting like a nagging bitch because he is not fulfilling his responsibilities.

We had a huge fight in front of his mother and told her that I called her a bitch (which I did and am very sorry for it) It was years ago when our relationship was sour but my mother – in – law and I have a great relationship now. However, the fact that she knows I called her a bitch is a big issue and she must be resenting me. I have not seen her ever since the fight.

Also, my husband disgraced me in front of her by telling me that I have no respect and does not want to be married to me anymore. He does not see me in…

I am so sick of my MIL she can have my husband! She has called me on numerous occasions and cursed me and my mother out because my mother defended me when my husband was being verbally abusive to me. She thought it was ok for him to call me a b@tch and when I decided it wasn’t going to continue she had an issue with it. She acts as if my life didn’t begin until I met her son. Mind you, I owned property, I’m educated and had a very rewarding life before him. I hate her and I’m to the point where she can have her husband back. I was merely borrowing him.
They both constantly throw in my face the fact that she contributed to our wedding! And constantly put my parents down because they didn’t pay for the wedding but they gave me the money for the…

Where to begin? Seems to be the starting sentence for all of us DIL’s. I know your pain.

My fiance and I had a beautiful daughter this year. She is now 11 months and just as cute as a button. But before my beautiful daughter, I was dating my fiance for 5 years. We’re high school sweethearts. And from the moment I met his mother, I knew she was nuts! She was always in our business. If we had fights or disputes, she had to be in the middle of it and know everything! She wanted to be our problem solver. She preceded to tell me I was looney/crazy and that I alone needed to go see a psychiatrist!

For our wedding, she refuses to wear a dress. As tradition goes, the two mothers can’t wear the same color, or the same color as the bridesmaids. But she just refuses to wear a…

I have only been married for 3 weeks and I already can’t stand my husband’s sisters. I never did like them much, but now I seriously hate them and it’s consuming me. My husband has 2 brothers and 2 sisters and I recently became friends with one of his brother’s girlfriends who has told me some of the things they say behind my back. They do the same thing to her and are constantly trying to sabotage the relationship. I never knew how much they talked about me and I am so upset by them that I can’t take it anymore! This is a second marriage for us both but we wanted to have a special wedding anyways. I never got the “fairy tale” wedding before, so I wanted one this time, but they seem to think it was inappropriate and have said nothing but bad things about EVERYTHING behind…