Well its been a few years that I had to take my MIL and SIL crap. They have been rude, ugly, and ignored me purposely when I would still try to have a conversation with them. I wanted for them to treat me how anyone would want to be treated. Since I got married and had my baby its been a battle. I am a stay at home mom, I have tried to work at jobs but it really didn’t pay off with small checks coming in. I take care of my children, stay home, do everything a good Mom and wife are suppose to do. I get NO credit from my husbands family. My MIL helps my SIL but has told me I need to get someone else to help take care of my child when I go to work or school. But she has the other child all the time. My MIL is helping my SiL raise her child. I ask for no help b/c I am glad to take care of my child. The only thing I could think of is that they don’t approve b/c I have no money and I don’t come form money. I HAVE NO IDEA, WHY THEY ARE SUCH SNOBS. Apparently after all this time I am not good enough. But I was good enough at one time to babysit my sil child. Once I said I wanted to go back to school again she stiffs her nose in the air and I am dirt to them again. I have not been giving even a little effort in trying to make some kind of a relationship with either of my in laws. I am actually not even saying hello anymore. I feel lots of hate and disgust on how fake they are. One day they say a few things and act as if there are no issues and the next day it back to “I am better than you”… I am about to blow up and go all out saying what I really think. I do hope they are starting to get an idea that I am tired of their shit. Sorry about the language. it is causing trouble between my husband and I. I don’t want him to choose sides but, I can no longer be a puppet around his family and act as if there is nothing wrong!!!! WHAT TO DO??
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One Response to “Starting to hate my MIL and SIL”
You poor thing. I totally feel for you. I have many problems with MIL and SIL. They are underhand and sly. Whenever I challenge either of them they both basically ignore me ! Husband does not really understand how awful this has made me feel. I am so much happier lately as I have not spoken to either for about year now. But still the mention of their name rankles me - husband still sees them. They have said vile things behond y back which have been passed on to me but husband never reprimanded them about it. It makes you feel such a fool. Gotta go as hubby in other room and bound to start yet another row if sees me on this site. Dont worry - hang in there - at the end of the day they really are not worth your consideration much less your pain. xxxxx