So my husband I have been married for only a short time, but have been dating for almost three years, and during these years, I’ve had problems with every one in his intermediate family except his biological father. It started with his younger brother who hated me cause he is a teenage boy. Then his mom started weird behaviors towards me , but I tried to excuse them. Then his older brother pulled a jerk move and we had problems. Then his step mother and they all got over it in time except him mother. Just a little history on this woman is pathetic.
She has spent 13 of my husband’s 19 years alive in prison due to substance abuse and DUI’S. Not to hot for the role model. But I don’t judge her by this, I make a serious effort to bond with her cause I love her son.
We got married in February, he was joining the Army, but I hated it and finally at the very last minuet got him to stay. I saved everyone the pain that he wanted to put us all through but accomplishing his dreams. I hated the thought of him leaving me, I hadn’t spent such a long time without him since I met him and couldn’t handle it. Selfish, but after the wedding, he understood just how much it affected me. And how much he wanted to build a sturdy foundation before leaving. We agreed it was best.
He’s never put his mother high on the list of importance and never pushed she and I getting to know each other, but I did. I made a conscious effort to have dinner with her regularly and call or text her to just say hi. I tried for years.Once we got married though, because we lived in another town, she became jealous, I knew this cause I had just married her” favorite son”. Sorry my bad. Not. So she still has substance abuse problems and calls when she’s all messed up to repeat herself for hours, I swear just for torture.
Well one day, well actually it was May 18th, of this year she started calling my husband and torturing him at 10 am. She called him, no joke, every hour that day, so he got annoyed and told her to stop and then hung up on her and then ignored her the rest of the day. Well he failed to tell me this whole story cause he knows how crazy she makes me.Well later that night she continues to call him but starts telling him how she hates me. how little she thinks of me and how I “stole her son by brainwashing him” okay. well wow. ya, shes dumb right? so he told her to stop and leave him alone. He tells me this and I figure since I’ve now been made apart of this I’d call her and see what’s going on and if I can talk her to tears, so all will end. I call and she hangs up. 7 times. I got annoyed fast! So at this point I shrink to her size and blow up her phone. Long story short we yell, call names, and I tell her everything I was with holding for years. I felt better, but angry. She then turned around and called my Husband to tell him were dead to her.SWEET!! is what I think 1st. Then he says okay, bye. Were talking about it all and she calls again, I told him to answer it and she proceeds to tell him that she’s written an obituary for him cause he’s dead to her. She told him that he died from a gun shot wound and told him his funeral arrangements were made, gave us the location, date(May 22) and time and hung up.
Well with our easy amusement we call his dad and laugh it up, cause she really just did that. She hasn’t stopped to this day. We have his whole family on our side when it comes to her and I, but it’s hard. It’s difficult. What if I have a baby? Can I tell her to play dead? Can I still be dead to her? I don’t know what else I should do. We have a family thing coming up next weekend and I’m honestly excited. Drama? None? I honestly don’t know, but can’t wait to share that one too.
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