My fiance and I have been having problems do to his mother. She is the most evil women I have ever met. She is constantly mean to my children because they are not her son’s. She will even go as far as buying his children things right in front of mine and not offer them a thing. She refers to my kids as “those kids”. She doesn’t even call them by their names. She constantly down grades me- telling me I will never be good enough for her son. My fiance of course swears his mother wouldn’t do that and always takes her side over mine. To top it all off, she invited his ex over for our family dinner and said her son and his ex needed some alone time together so that he would get his head straight and leave me. Of course he stood up for me when she said it but that was the only time he ever has. I’m left feeling that if she has anything to do with it we will never be happy.
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Her name is Patricia. By day, she is Mrs. Corporate America, by night, she is an “Ann Landers” of sorts. Patricia is the founder of the internationally-recognized website, motherinlawhell.com.
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3 Responses to “She’s driving me crazy”
Before you marry he needs to be on your side.
Sit him down and confront him with all your concerns…then together confront his mother.
Show a united front to her now!
What is wrong with some of these men?!
First off, treating your kids like crap is wrong. Period. They have names, speak to them like people.
He needs to stand up for you more often.
And be prepared for this to be a fight cause no son wants to hear his mother is a bitch.
you really need to think if you can deal with this for the rest of your life, my mil did the exact same thing to my kids, but spoiled his kids rotten, I worked so hard at trying to always be fair with all the kids, sometimes I think I even did more for his daughter, our only girl than I did the other kids trying to make sure I was never accused of taking favors, well long story short my stepdaughter an I became very close, this must of scared her caused she threw a huge fit about nothing, she has my sd and my younger son so brainwashed they believe every friggin lie she tells, my sd had a baby girl in July, by august my mil made sure my stepdaughter no longer has anything to do with me, I don’t get to spend any time with new baby, it breaks my heart that people can be so evil, my husband finally realizes its his mother not me, but wont say anything to his daughter for fear she may get mad at him, if I had to do it all over again I never would have gotten married to my husband, I love this man with all of my heart but the pain an hell that I have been through is much worse than what it would of been to loose him 14 years ago, think long an hard, if you really love this man I would find a church, and a counselor. good luck to you, I cry every single night of my life.