Mother-in-law Hell

The main reason I have a distaste for my MIL is because she gave birth at 16 years young and then simply dropped off my boyfriend at her mothers (his grandmother) house. The funny thing is that she would rarely drop by and buy him things to compensate for her lack of parenting/absence. Finally, when he turned 17 years old (after we had been dating for two years) she decided to move him a hundred miles away from our city to hers. She must have felt this would make her a good mother or something. Whats worse about all of this is that my boyfriend/the father of our son, thinks she is the BEST mother ever. A few days after arriving in their new city, me and my boyfriend got into a fight because we missed each other so badly, and she grabbed the phone from him and told me that I was not allowed to talk to him anymore or she would press charges because I was 18 at the time and he was still 17! I was irate! Thats the most preposterous conniving thing anyone has ever said to me, plus its ignorant because there is no law stating that we were not allowed to date each other. ANYWAY, thats the main reason, next is because she dresses like a hoochie mamma/thinks she still got it. She is not attractive at all and she wears FAAAARR to much makeup. I am disgusted to say she wore a miniskirt and corset top (with her breasts spilling out of it) to MY BABY SHOWER!! She had not even met half of my family yet! how innapropriate! Whats worse is that she takes her dog with her everywhere (its not a cute little dog either its a HUGE one) and she of course HAD TO bring it too, along with its 100000000 hairs that I had to clean from wherever she decided to go. While I was pregnant, I recall visiting her and being very hungry, it is a city I am unfamilliar with (LOS ANGELES) so I was not about to go out on my out searching for food (plus she only had cereal in the ENTIRE HOUSE). I asked my lover (her son) to take me to get something and she was angry because she wanted to go to church with him and told me “YOU CAN EAT CEREAL”. Then I said I dont want cereal and she told me “well you are not his responsibility you two are not married!” WHAT A *&*@#$% I was sooo upset because I WAS PREGNANT at the time. MY BABY NEEDS TO EAT!! Boy was I fuming! Thank GOD he took me to eat. he actually had respect for me unlike her, she couldnt even take care to feed her guest.