Me and my husband have been together for nearly 6 years now but only got married this august just gone. i love him with all my heart i just dont like his mother and sister! o.m.g they are really strange! when my hubby told his mum we were getting married she apparently started slagging me off, you know the usual ’she isnt good enough’ ‘no one likes her’’shes lazy ‘, i dont know exactly cos i wasnt there but she ended up making my hubby cry and that is not fair but he told her that he loves me n she cant stop us!! any way after that he wanted me to have his 2 neices as bridesmaids and i agreed even tho i knew there would be trouble, now all you ladys know planning a wedding is no easy task, i had everything under control and got the bridesmaid dresses. when it came to the girls trying it on, my sister in law started moaning saying that they didnt like them, there too young to be bridesmaids blah blah, i felt like saying ‘i couldnt give a damn if those spoiled brats are bridesmaids or not but your brother wants them to be so why cant you just shut it and do it for him!!’ so we had disagreements and sorted them out and i ended up having the oldest neice instead of both. the morning of the wedding came, all ready outside church waiting to go in…..no bridesmaid!! thats because his sister wanted to get her ready at her house and ended up being late!! if that wasnt enough my mother in law did not speak to me all day, gave me dirty looks every time i looked at her and made it quit clear that im not welcome in the family and i feel like she is turning the rest of the family against me! i dont know what im suposed to do now because i feel its affecting my husbands relationship with her, she never comes to visit us but is ALWAYS with sister in law and neices and i just wish she could accept me for her sons sake! i prob not articulated this very well lol but im fuming about it n need a good rant n rave!!! if anyone has any advice id be grateful as i dont know weather i should stay well clear of her or be overly nice to anoy her haha im stuck!! HELP!
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Her name is Patricia. By day, she is Mrs. Corporate America, by night, she is an “Ann Landers” of sorts. Patricia is the founder of the internationally-recognized website, motherinlawhell.com.
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2 Responses to “She makes me feel like an imposter!!!”
I am so sorry to hear what nasty people your in laws are…it is tough dealing with the craziness of the in laws. And it seems to only get worse. You MIL is evil. You cannot change ot - so you need to accept and get on iwith your life. get the book “toxic In Laws” It is a fabulous read and may shed some light and give you a solution you can live with….good luck
STEER CLEAR! For as much as you possibly can anyway. When you do have to see her. Try killing her with kindness and remember you didn;t marry her you married her son. Let her say what she will as long as your husband still loves you.