My mother in law is just plain rude! She finds it necessary to tell me how beautiful and how much of a great cook my brother in law's girlfriend is. Never once in 27 years has she said anything nice about me. I try and I try to ignore her, but lawd that woman gets under my skin. One year she was sending a birthday card to my my son, 2 weeks after his birthday. When I told her his birthday was 2 weeks ago, that fool had the nerve to ask me If I was sure! She asked me if I was sure about the date my son was born!!! SERIOUSLY!!!