Well b!tch, I won. After your most recent outburst DH realized just how sociopathic you actually are and is content to have us and our children avoid you and your family. You have played the victim/martyr all whilst spewing vitriol. You and FIL fostered a toxic environment for your own children, who are still suffering the psychological effects, and I pity them. My DH mentioned it's hilarious that his siblings borrow money from you all the time - they're likely waiting for you to croak so they never have to pay you back. DH and I are self-sufficient and don't need your "help", which infuriates you since you aren't privy to our financial affairs. Your feeble attempts at controlling our lives have failed, all while bringing my family unit closer together. Enjoy the ride to hell.