She never congratulated us on the baby, or the engagement. And will barely mention either. She has called me stupid, racist(I'm a mix of everything under the sun), and a snob. When we were looking for a new place she said that my family would always be visiting (with a negative tone). Said my fiance was in trouble when we went to a finance course in regards to my pension (I'm from out of the country and can't work yet). To top it off he tries to hide her offensiveness. Plus many more things she has said and caused me to have breakdowns while pregnant. I don't ever want to be under the same roof as her again.