My MIL manipulates my husband by crying every time she wants us to do anything. From the holiday plans she wants us to make, to just coming over to visit her at her disgusting dog piss covered house, she always gets her way with crying. And it drives me insane. She's very overweight and has always had health issues. And every time she throws a fit I just pray that she drops dead soon. My dream is that my in-laws get into a car accident and both die together. Because if he dies, she will become a burden on our shoulders cause she's so out of shape that she can't do anything for herself, and if she dies, he will become a giant burden because he's anti-social but is needy (he has no friends, and would call us 50 times a day). I feel bad for it, but every day I wake up hoping I'll get a call that they're dead.