My mother in law is terrible, not only to me but to her own son. First, she degrades him all the time. She has called him fat and stupid among other things. He is a paramedic and she expects him to pick up his phone whenever she calls and then she gets extremely irritated if he misses ONE. On top of that, she is extremely hateful towards me. I have only been in the same room with her a handful of times and each time, she judges me. I have never given her a reason to hate me. I have always been polite to her and offered to do things for her but she responds with hate. She degrades me in front of her son all the time and has even offered him money to break it off with me. Every time he sees her he comes back wreaked and I have to make everything better. He hates seeing her and has thought about removing her from his life because of how toxic she is. She even causes a lot of problems in our relationship. I don't know how to deal with her and I am afraid of the future I will have with her in it. I need some help.