One more confession. My MIL is close with my husband's ex-wife. MIL goes shopping with her and they talk on the phone and exchange christmas presents. I didn't care - I thought my husband should be the upset one. I noticed though that the last time we were over MIL still has their wedding picture out... OK... And come to find out she has been pushing my husband to reconcile with ex. Now I'm mad. She has never said these things in front of me but now I get why I'm never getting asked to/invited to do anything with her. I've never done anything but be nice to her - that's about to end!