about the evils of my MIL…Where do I begin!! My MIL has never liked me simply because I took her little boy out of the house. According to her I only got pregnant to “trap” him! Anyhow, we moved out of her house (because she is crazy) and I told my fiance, “start a family with me as you should or I’ll let you know when the baby is here” There really was no need to live with her. So we moved out and he found an apartment not far enough form her place. We were out of her house so I was happy. Next step would be to furnish our new apartment. One day I show up and the whole apartment is furnished. SHE picked my colors, couches, dinning table and decorations. SHE fixed it up just like her house. ughh!When the baby was born she started feeding her barbeque meat “so she can suck the juices out”. Of course, when I would tell my fiance he would not do anything about it. Then my baby was getting diarrhea and would vomit every time my MIL would babysit her. Not only that but she drove her around in her pick up truck WITHOUT A CAR SEAT!!! She fed her with her dirty fingernails, she brings strange alcoholic , married men home and pays no attention to her teenage son that does drugs an who knows what else at home. She has even claimed that I am a bad mother because I chose to continue going to college and working after the baby was born. And that that is why she says my daughter is more HER daughter than she is mine because only my MIL “loves her like a daughter and is not leaving her alone during the day”. I work an hour away so I leave pretty early in the morning. I pick my daughter up from the sitter’s and she’ll tell me that my MIL dropped her off. I get home and I find that my things rearranged??!! HMMM…..I wonder who it was. My fiance tells me that she is only trying to help. I don’t think so!! This is why I want to move far far away. As far away from her as possible!! PHEWW! I think that’s enough for today!
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2 Responses to “My first official complaint”
I think you need to have your locks changed, and you need to find a babysitter that you trust. Don’t let your daughter be with your MIL alone. She’s using your daughter to get to you, at risk of your daughter!
I’m sorry, but what are you thinking? I understand mil hell– I really do. However, you are actually allowing your mother in law to put your daughter’s life in danger. Find a new baby sitter, leave, do something, but you have to make it stop.