I had the worst mother in law who when my first son was born, She tried to kidnap him out of the hospital. And then kept poking her nose in thinking she was the mother to him. She was always criticizing me and putting me down, and my partner always took her side and never believed how bad she was. When my second son was born she got more threatening to me and only wanted to have my
first son and not the second one. When me and her son split up due to his violence, she told me she would try every dirty trick in the book to get my eldest son off me even lying to a judge or the social services. She then started the court proceedings to get custody of my kids, and started lying to the courts. This went on for 12 years, and I tried to fight her but she is the most evil and twisted manipulative woman. She now has twisted everyone to her evil mind games and has my kids so I had to make the hardest decision of my life and walk away from my kids. As I can not take her or her son’s games any more and affecting my life.
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3 Responses to “MOTHER IN LAW WHO TOOK MY KIDS”
Dear Cara: Wow. How horrible. You need, in this order: (1) a counselor, to help you deal, and to help you make some wise decisions; (2) someone who can help you fight your way through the maze of Child Protective Services bureaucracy (or whatever agency was involved); and finally (3) a better lawyer than you had the first time around. Your sons need to know that, no, Mom did NOT walk out on them, and that at least one sane adult loves them. If they really are being held incommunicado from you, consider this: they are teenagers, not toddlers. Betcha they have MySpace or FaceBook sites. Betcha their grandparents are old fogies who aren’t clued in about that….
Sorry it has been a bit, thank you for your advice. I am getting counselling at the moment. And i am swapping solicitor as i have not been happy for years. My kids do have e-mail address but when i e-mail them they are watched by the mother in law from hell, and all i get is abuse from them as she has warped them against me. I feel she has got want she wanted and she is the most twisted manipulative person ever, that is why social services never believed what i told them as she paid them back handers and she lied to the courts and proberly back handed them as well.
Thank you again.
Yours Caroline
I would hurt them in so many ways….