Mother-in-law Hell

My husband and I lived with his MOTHER for three LONG years, we got into it so bad! she hated me from the get go because he was such a mommas boy and i took all the attention from her! every time we got in an argument (my husband and i) she would be right there all in it! “Whats going on, whats going on” she would say, as ssoon as I heard those words I turned red! Then she instigated and told him what his final thoughts of whatever the fight was and he would side with her opinion and i’d get treated like crap the rest of the day! it got to the poiint where she started rewarding him after our fights, like her sick way of getting her attention back cuz he knew after every blow up she was going to comfort him! And then when I separate into another room he’d go sit with her and they would talk crap about me loud enough so i could hear them, she’d always say, you need to leave her, ya’ll have no business being together, etc… And then when I get mad and start chewing them out, I weas the one in the wrong and they’d make it crazier! And if they weren’t talking crap she would be asking every detail about what we’re fighting about and he would tell her! It was as if I was married to both of them! As you can see I’m speaking past tense. Well we had a child, and thats when things went from bad to worse! Arguments became worse and then she became more aggressive then our fights became physical! I finally snapped and we got into, the first time, she went to jail, the second time i did! and then this was the last month my husband and i were together, three years after i came out, she throws in my face… “I TOLD HIM TO SHIP YOU BACK WHERE YOU CAME FROM THE FIRST WEEK YOU WERE HERE! AFTER YOU SAID MY CAR WAS STUPID!” Number one, how could she trip over me saying I don’t like Ford Escapes (her car obviously) because those types are TOP HEAVY, who remembers that stuff, second of all who is she to tell him to ship me back where I came from! What the hell! I am a human not a box! AHHHHHHHHHHHH! But for my 6 month olds sake I left those two and I guess they will live happily ever after. I won the battles but she won the war! I just cannot be married to those two any more LOL!