myself feeling lost….Well I wish I could say that it was a incredible morning, or even just a good morning but, its not. I dreamed I finally told off my MIL and SIL from hell. It felt so good I felt relieved in that dream all my emotions were let out and, I let them have it; with no regret of what came out my mouth. Telling them off all felt so good. To bad I had to wake up and I find myself so depressed b/c I want to so bad be done with those freaking snobby, selfish, two-faced, tacky people. They act only nice when its convenient, they only think of themselves which they think they’re better. They act just as tacky as the next jerk. But yet they get along well with the wealthier people. I don’t come from a tight nit family or money. I grew up in a hard environment,they grew up in private schools had almost everything they wanted and live like they are rich pretty much.
My husband says he knows that they talk behind my back b/c they do it to everyone else. I am a stay at home mom now, before I had a few jobs but, it didn’t pay off much just daycare and a little food. Which my hubby didn’t care for, so a babysat other children while rasing my own. My sil was nice then b/c I watch her beautiful daughter. Later I told her after the summer I wouldn’t babysit b/c I need to go back to school to get a nice paying job for around here. She told me I should babysit til January until her young one could go to pre-k. I said that I didn’t want to wait that long and she replied if my husband gets another job like he was trying; making alot more,would I do anything but stay home.The next day she gets a new babysitter not telling me she tells my hubby to tell me..I beleive she was pissed so she “showed me” that is why she switched babysitters. I loved her girl coming she is the same age as my youngest. I grew close to her. That family acts like I do nothing with my life b/c I don’t have a 9-5 job. I have gotten comments, like today woman want rights like men so they have to work too. That is bullshit, b/c my job is 24/7 and I always have my children.I have no help. After five years it hasn’t changed just gets worse, I’ve tried to have relations with them but, its never gonna happen. I figured by now why should it, especially it they do not respect me at all. I want to move far away from them…..Am I going Crazy???????
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Her name is Patricia. By day, she is Mrs. Corporate America, by night, she is an “Ann Landers” of sorts. Patricia is the founder of the internationally-recognized website, motherinlawhell.com.
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2 Responses to “I woke up from my dream and found”
I feel for you. I live right beside my mil. Luckily like your dream, I made it a reality. I DID tell off my mil and sil at different occasions, and I haven’t had to put up with their shit in almost 3 months now. Sooner or later, you are going to have to say something. Take up for yourself, there is NO shame in that. Good luck! I am as well a stay at home mom and I know how much work it is, so keep your head up!!
You are soooo NOT going crazy, darling… She is using every trick in the book to try to keep her son torn between the two of you. She is intimidated by how special you obviously are to him and wants to try to put some sort of wedge between you, even if she has to exploit the “once-present umbilical cord” to do so.
And, I have news for you… I am dealing with a similar situation. I stayed home with the kids (she is a HUGE SNOB)… Once I started working, she found issues with the fact that I no longer had enough time to dote over his every need…. It is a no-win situation. She doesn’t really dislike you… she dislikes who you are to her son… Someone EXTREMELY IMPORTANT!