will make all the other in-laws look GREAT!!!! Sweet and innocent perhaps.
My Future son-in-law can be found on the internet. Just Google Otis. It stands for Offender Tracking Information System. He is currently back in prison because he slapped my daughter so hard that 14 hours later I could still see the handprint on her face. When I asked her why she was still with him she replied. “Because it was MY fault Mom… I MADE him mad.” They have a daughter together that will be turning 1 Oct. 11th. While my daughter was giving birth, he turned to her and said. “Would you SHUT UP I am trying to sleep.” I wasn’t at the hospital yet, but I was informed of this as soon as I arrived by the nurse on duty. She told me this right in front of him it had even made her mad. They are engaged unfortunately, but my 22 yo. daughter is the only one with a job. She works 8 hrs. a day AND is going to school. He would sit home and do nothing then turn around and yell at my daughter because the apartment was a mess. Then one afternoon I took my daughter and Grand daughter out for lunch and kept my Granddaughter till after my husband got home from work. Then he and I took my Grand daughter to her home. William was on the balcony SCREAMING and throwing a fit because I didn’t take HIM out to eat with us. He told me I was a mean and evil bit*h that needed to go to church! He told me I had to take my granddaughter home with me for the night because HE didn’t WANT to watch her. As I said currently he is in prison. He is there till March. I can only hope that is enough time for her to open her eyes and get out!! There are MANY other things he has done but the more I think of him the more my blood boils so I am going to stop now!
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6 Responses to “I Bet my future Son-in-Law…”
Mrs. Taylor
I’m sure that you can find a website for people who have issue’s with their inlaws. This site is for daughter in laws. I’m sorry your daughter is going through this, however, why would she then chose to have a child with him? I’m sure she could have prevented that. Nothing makes our mother in law’s look great, because although there may not be physical abuse, there is definately emotional abuse.
Bottom line, this isn’t the correct forum for you. And if this story is true, I honestly question why you would be posting your story in this forum.
if you give a crap about your granddaughter, call the police, social services etc. you cant change your daughters mind for her, but hell mend you if something happens to that little girl and you did nothing to stop it, except moan on the internet which begs the honesty of your story. Then find your own website
Coffee, excellent reply.
To the above comments…..OMGosh! You guys! I am sorry but while this may be a forum for daughter-in-laws to post on about their mother-in-laws from hell I think that other in-laws should be able to post as well. Maybe there are no forums out there for other in-laws.
To Mrs. Taylor,
I am a law student and I also work with CASA. Honestly there is nothing that you can legally do to keep your son-in-law away from your daughter. Your daughter has to be the one to do this. You can however, as a grandmother file a protective order against your son-in-law on behalf of your granddaughter.
There is hope for your son-in-law though. My husband has a business leadership team that helps men like him become better husbands. His business offers mentorship, life coaching, and teaches men how to chase their dreams by changing his lifestyle and make better decisions. The testimonies that you will hear and read from guys on out team are exceptional. My husband was once no better than your son-in-law. Because of this business/leadership team he is an amazing husband and will be an awesome father to our future children. If you would like more info you can go to http://www.deardooley.com. His contact info is on the website.
Shell Bell—good comment. Although this is a forum for us, this lady had an issue that needed advice.
Geesh pinkscrappy and coffee, how can a daughter-in-law (dil) be helped with mother-in-law (mil)issues if you’re unwilling to look from the other prospective? I am/was a dil(divorced twice had two of em) and now am a mil. My first mil was from hell, my second mil was WONDERFUL and my third mil has past, expired, dead (I never met the woman). I told myself that when I became a mil I wanted to be like #2. Now that I am I find it difficult to be what I want to be because the kids (my son and dil) are so busy working, going to school and being with her mother that it is hard to bond. Oh does that sound like jealousy? Hum, perhaps but being close to my mom as well, I understand. Oh and did I mention I live 20, 25 miles away? Mil’s tend to come from hell because they miss their sons. Looking back I think that was what #1’s problem was. Also it seems to me that women in general tend to take control of their families. So the mil has problems letting go of that control while the dil has total control which is resented, hopefully for just a season. It takes a lot of understanding on the mil’s part and also the dil’s part. This is the neat part… my grandmother did NOT approve of my mother (her dil) and in the end, it was my mother that became the biggest comfort to her, more so than her own son. So I would say to dil’s across the earth #1 you reap what you sow, so be a good dil, #2 people and situations tend to mellow with time so hang in there #3 above all love each other, love conquers all and #4 Communicate. Once you get to know each other well enough, when she ticks you off, tell her (in a nice way). Hopefully your mil from hell will repent, soften toward you and there will be peace in your family.
Oh and Mrs. Taylor, if your future sil is that abusive, it sounds to me like your daughter is beginning to smarten up or he wouldn’t be in prison right now, assuming she pressed charges. I think I would worry about what happens when he gets out. In my opinion, “Shell bell” is on the right track. I’d try to get him help while incarcerated. Go to http://www.mikebarber.org/main/ and see if something could be set up for William. Peace