My husband and I have been together for four years now and he is starting to turn into a mama’s boy and its driving me nuts. He and his mother did not have the best relationship when he was growing up so the first 3 years we were together it was all about me. When we would go to her house they couldn’t even get along. She has always been “nice” to me but to me it feels like a forced (FAKE) nice just to make him think she likes me. Anyway I got a new job in febuary this year working nights so he would go to his mothers with my daughter while I was working…(big mistake)Now they are like best friends and she controls his every move. him and I never got to see eachother and he was going to her house every night so I switched up my hours so that when he got off work we could spend some time together…Now every day she calls him at the same time everyday asking him to come over and he can’t say NO to her so he does and Im left sitting here alone. She is having trouble in her marriage (Completely her fault) and so I know she makes him feel guilty and so thats why he goes over there. I hate it. I have asked him to cut back on going over there and spend some time with me and he did a little but still everyday like clockwork she calls and I feel like picking up the phone and yelling at her saying: you weren’t there for him when he was a child so why now? Sorry but its too little too late So leave us alone. If it was anyone else I would but I do not want to cause problems in my marriage because of her. How can I get him to be a MAN again and tell her NO sometimes. It has gotten to the point where he cancels plans with me to go be with her. She treats him like he’s her husband (weird) I have even gotten so mad about it that I have told him to go live with her. She is ruining my marriage. Please what can I say to him and her to fix this situation?

This post was submitted by Melissa.