Step Father in Law, I couldn’t stand his temper and his abusive attitude. He didn’t like me from the start, until now I still don’t know why and what the hell is his problem. I noticed it, it’s all about pretended to be nice to me in front everybody.
I never thought he could carry on this long. You know whenever I had a problem with him; he sure has a lot of experienced about vengeance. He managed to get his way no matter what.
I couldn’t believe how stupid I was, to even consider one day that this old man might have some kind a change of heart. All those talked and family meetings none of those seem to matter. For all he knows right now is doing whatever benefits him.
You know at this point, from my experienced with this old man I think he’s still an abusive and controlling person mentally. What is really hard to believe about this old man were all the stories my wife told me of how he abused her most of her life until she ran away to stay with her friend. I mean the old guy even tried to molest her when she’s 15 yrs old. My wife hated the way he talked her in public and how he favor his son in front of her. She witnessed years of abused his wife and cheated on her. What really hurt and pissed me of that witnessed my wife in tears and fears of this old man.
Mother in law is a Bipolar Disorder II, it’s a headache tried to understand that woman. One day she nice the next day she had a lot shit to say. The worst part was witnessed my wife cried because of her them mood swings.
I don’t see what’s the big deal with her and my daughters right now. I always thought she has no time for them, all I heard she so busy remodel her house. Most of the times my daughters told me when they over there that all they did were watch TV while she naps on the couch or helped her husband works out side the house.
I’m so sick of her whining of how she bench her back for my wife and my girls and how she watch the girls for us and how she helped my wife and be there for her”.
Brother in law, boy where do I start with this guy? He’s definitely a weird one in the family. For years I’ve been put up with this guy bad mouth about me.
I mean this dude he talked like he knew all about family life and lecture my wife about astuteness. Which is doesn’t seem to make sense to me after I gazed at his life. Because what seeing right now is a weirdo who always high on drug whenever he’s around my family, a guy who has a history of raped his stepsister, a guy who couldn’t see his kids for years and his daughter tried to commit suicide, and especially a jealous rage dude who got a big fight with his parents then tried to sue his own father because he thought that his dad favored me instead of him.
What really pissed me of that when we had problem with his parents. He just somehow butts in like he knew everything about our problems and pointed out about family dishonor shit toward us. Especially to me, I got so anxious about his hate comments to me on my wife blog. I never get a chance to respond to his comments because my wife scared and blocked the blog. The worst part was witnessed my wife in tears the whole thing.
Right now I don’t talk to them and my wife kind a ignore them too. But I know that as long I’m still married I will deal with them in the future. I don’t want to deal with them in the future and I sure don’t want to divorce my wife because of them. What to do?
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4 Responses to “Hate from the start-from a Son-in-law”
My advice is to def stay with your wife. Your wife should always come 1st before anyone else and your kids come 2nd on your list of priorities. While your wife’s family is your family to and you do have to accept them as your family as does your wife. You do NOT have to tolerate how they act towards you, your wife, or your kids. Accept them, pray for them, love them, but dont ever tolerate them!! Perhaps sending them a letter weather by email or postal mail, stating that you do not have to tolerate their behavior and unless it changes you will no longer be a part of their life. I know it may sound rash but what you have to understand is that your wife is your number one family and you are her number one family, so you guys should put each other first and for your wife’s family to try to come between you guys is wrong. What she also needs to understand is that her family is disrespecting her by disrespecting you. Bottom line….just cut them off and out of your life. You or your wife should never have to deal with them ever unless they are willing to change!!
My advice is to def stay with your wife. Your wife should always come 1st before anyone else and your kids come 2nd on your list of priorities. While your wife’s family is your family to and you do have to accept them as your family as does your wife. You do NOT have to tolerate how they act towards you, your wife, or your kids. Accept them, pray for them, love them, but dont ever tolerate them!! Perhaps sending them a letter weather by email or postal mail, stating that you do not have to tolerate their behavior and unless it changes you will no longer be a part of their life. I know it may sound rash but what you have to understand is that your wife is your number one family and you are her number one family, so you guys should put each other first and for your wife’s family to try to come between you guys is wrong. What she also needs to understand is that her family is disrespecting her by disrespecting you. Bottom line….just cut them off and out of your life. You or your wife should never have to deal with them ever unless they are willing to change!!
YOU PULL UP YOUR MAN PANTS AND PROTECT YOUR FAMILY! Your in-laws are a threat to your wife and daughters. You have to loving tell your wife, you will not allow the old man to be anywhere near your daughters due to his attempted sex abuse of your wife (that action in past is good indication of his actions in future). The MIL being bipolar, mental abuse to all around. BIL sounds like a predator too. Cut off as much contact as you can and support the wife so she can cut these idiots off too.
I just found this web site. I think it may save my sanity! Sabinh, my stories are so simalar, except that no mater how bad her family treats her my wife is always on their side and puts me down in front of them. Hang in there man! I am going to post some of my horror stories!