let me list the things she says about me and my bf
she doesnt think i am right for him
she thinks i am trying to take over her house
she doesn’t think i want her around my kids
she talks behind my back
she wont admit when she is wrong about stuff , like when she got in one fight with me
she is very selfish
she told her son that she wished she never had him
she kicked me and my children out for 5 days cause she could not handle living with us
the list goes on i am afraid
she does not want me with her son thats been stated she thinks i am going to take him away and she will never see him again ( i wish)
but i no it would not happened and besides i am not that type of person, but thats what she wants to believe and that hurts cause i have tryed so hard to make her like me and be myself but it dosent seem to work she acts like everything is normal and complains to her son(my bf) he is her only child and she is trying everything she can to keep him, he is a great guy and a perfect son he would do anything for them and me but she makes him feel like crap when he does somthing for me unless she approves of it, i so want marry him but i am afraid she will not let that happen. when she kicked me out she told him if he was staying with me in the relationship she wanted nothing to do with him. i am not a bad person never done drug or jail i was stupid and fell in love with idiots and married one but other then that i have always been a good person but very shy and i guess people think that makes me look snobby but i am not. but i dont no how to make this women believe that i am ok but then again she has put me through so much i really dont care, i moved 3000 miles to be with him and i am focused on being with me him but it has been harder then hell, what do i do. he doesn’t plan on moving out until january but i am afraid somthing will happen to make him stay here when he needs to start his life with me we are both in our 20’s and he already acts 40. i love my bf i wanna enjoy life with him as he does with me but she makes him feel so bad and he wont stand up for himself yet and tell her how it is . what do i do just sit here and wait and hope or do i move on , like i said any women would want him he has all the traits women look for except the mother from hell stuck right beside him. help!!!!!!!!!!!
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3 Responses to “furture mil hell!!!!!!!!”
leave him. it will never change and only get worse. He is not a man but a mamma’s boy
I very much agree with Joyce. If your husband to be doesn’t have the backbone to stand behind you now, what makes you think he’s going to be behind you when it comes to mommy dearest when you two get married.
Believe me when i say this, because I deal with one…once a mommas boy, always a mommas boy and it’s not easy living with one. Not to mention a very jealous mother that deep down inside, can’t stand that her DIL can have her son do things that she couldn’t make him do, it’s very trying. But the good thing is, your seeing this stuff before you get married and you have the chance to run.
It sounds like you were living with your boyfriend in his mother’s house? What did you expect? A momma’s boy in momma’s house? THAT is an arrangement headed for disaster. Get out and stay out. Move on. Do not look back. A momma’s boy is already happily married — to his MOMMA! You cannot be his momma, you will never replace his momma. You’ll only get in momma’s way and he will side with her over you. Period.