Mother-in-Law HELL

This is Long But trust me its worth the read!

One day my sister in law to be was over at my house visiting my son. He had been giving me a hard time all day. I quit smoking while I was pregnant, but started again afterwards.. I know my own stupidity… anyways, I smoked like 1-2 a day… only if I have had a bad day. Anyways, I asked if she would mind sitting with my 4 month old while I went for a quick smoke….

My husband and I just recently got married. But this was prior to the wedding and I had been looking at really cheap wedding dresses as we don’t have much money, and was set on getting something 200.00 or less. My fiances mom said that she wanted to come with me wedding dress shopping…. when we got there she INSISTED that I try on what…

We’re getting married in about a month, and for the most part my FMIL and FFIL have been great. I come from a VERY dysfunctional family but I’m a pretty well adjusted person. I just have issues accepting changes sometimes, but I’m slowly getting better about it. My FMIL and FFIL have been divorced for about 3-4 yrs now. He started dating again soon after and she didn’t but she is the one who initiated the divorce and will not tell a soul why she wanted it. She took him to the cleaners! But that’s their business.
His parents are paying for the wedding because we can’t and I havn’t spoken to my mother in a very long time and my father passed away. I’m so very grateful that they have stepped up and are doing this for us, but at the same time there are little things that are really…

Before I married my husband, my MIL seemed very pleasant (I guess it helped that she lived in another state). That all changed when she realized that I was here to stay.
Our wedding was a small intimate affair, with only immediate family. We had the reception at her house afterwords (her suggestion). The last few days before the wedding, she told me that she had a whole bunch of things for my family to do to decorate her house for the wedding. On the morning of the wedding she complained that my family never showed up to help her decorate, so annoyed, I called my mother. She explained that she had asked my MIL if she needed any help, and my MIL said “Oh no, I have everything under control. I don’t need help”.
My MIL and I drove together to the location where the ceremony would take place. While we…

Ok so when i first met my MIL she was all fine and dandy, and was polite…..oh how much difference a year makes….! My husband to be is the middle child, of 3 boys… I am the only girl in my family

I have moved to my fiancees town in Wales from England, only about a 30 minute drive away in Jan, and we got engaged in Feb. And she was fine, we set the date, for March 2010… and its all gone down hill since then.

I have tried to include her in the wedding plans, so i have taken her dress shopping, where she kept choosing dresses I didnt like, and I have got to have her miserable as sin neice as one of my bridesmaid as she effectively bullied me into it. ( She was a BM at a wedding last last year, and didnt crack her face one)…

I am truly considering not getting married on account of my fiance’s crazy mother. She has always treated him like a baby and wanted things her way, but I refuse to let it happen on my wedding day. She is Italian and Catholic. I am of mixed heritage and I am personally not religious, however my family is. She has taken over my plans for the wedding and rearranging everything for her liking. No matter what I choose or suggest, its never good enough and it’s never proper.
I never really wanted to get married in a church, but because of her whining and nagging I let it go and agreed to be married in a church. I choose a beautiful Christian church. But because it wasn’t Catholic, and they didn’t offer bread and wine it wasn’t good enough for her. I absolutley love the wedding dress I chose. I showed…

Yeah I blew but I asked for help… so here is another line… F*** those who judge me for saying what they thought!

I have been living with his mom for the past 4 weeks. During which time, I have continued to be ill and vomited still about 6 times a week until I got so sick of hearing his mother rant on and on about how sick I was and how unnatural this is. Well no sh*t Sherlock, I thought I am the one vomiting all the time, I kind of know it sucks, but I said nothing. She continued to lay into me about how this only happens to bad people, how the world was my fault, and how if I had been a better friend then I would have been there for him and not Andrea when he got cancer but since I was not watching out for…