Mother-in-Law HELL

My inlaws are crazy. I’ve learned to deal with this. But they baby my SIL way to much. She’s 20 years old, and does nothing but sleep around with her 18 yearold boyfriend. She’s dropped out of college maybe, 6 times now. She’s a loser. Anyways, when my husband and I first started seeing each other his sister was cool (I knew her because she was friends with my younger sister). However, her best friend was my husband’s previous girlfriend. I was ok with this, seeing as I also knew her from my sister and hung out with her a few times before hand. Well, she had said some things one day about me to my husband and my husband had spit in her face. Of course my SIL and MIL stuck up for her, and said it was just because she was jealous to forget about it, that I…

Here is the background… Hubby is deployed to Afghanistan an I’m 39 weeks pregnant with our first child… He’s currently on leave for the birth of our son and I love spending the time with him… HOWEVER!! His mom decided she wanted to be here for the birth of our son… She’s from another state…

She was trying to talk me into going to her state to have the baby donor would be born in the same hospital as my husband… REALLY? How about I live here and could care less about where my husband was born…

I have stated that I needed 3 things for the baby and she told my husband that I don’t NEED them but that I WANT them… Really? I need a swing, breast pump, and one of those baby holders you wear so you don’t have to push a stroller all over the place… But I…

Oh ladies, God bless you all. Most
of you ladies…. you ain’t seen nothing. Whenever I hear a wife rant
about her MIL, I sympathize, but I also think, “you ain’t seen nothin’!”

I have seen two psychiatrists since my wedding 5 years ago. Apparently, I have post traumatic stress disorder because of it. My psychiatrist can hardly believe I got married at all.

Every so often the memories come back and I feel a terrible surge of ugly emotions. But I’m getting better.

Here is my story.

My husband proposed in June of 2003, after I had accepted a job overseas. Part of his proposal was to tell me to leave the country for a year, and then marry him when I came back. Interesting…mmm? (Maybe he was just protecting me from her…ha,ha!)

After we got engaged , my mother and I waited two weeks for MIL to call us. Etiquette I read says that the…

My fiancee and I have been together for 2 years. AT first his mom was great she was caring and wanted a relationship. Now if shes not trying to turn me on my future husband with petty little pieces, such as do you think it was right for (dh) to say he didn’t like my cooking? Then crying when I say that its okay he doesn’t like a meal. Crying seems to be the only thing she is really good at. But then I got pregnant and she got even worse. She tells dh we need to get married so the baby has a family when he’s born. Well that would be nice if we both had insurance to cover a delivery but we don’t so out of the question. But she thinks its worth it. Then her my mother and dh came to my first ultra-sound. She was super…

So my FMIL is kind of crazy- I get along with her alright but that’s only because I rarely talk to her. When we visit her, she talks and talks about her ex’s and her own son rarely gets a chance to respond, much less me. I get along with every one of my fiance’s relatives accept her. After our last visit, I’ve come to the conclusion that I don’t like her very much.

Now I don’t think she means wrong but she’s so annoying. She’s a hovering, controlling woman who thinks her son is still a baby. He’s 22 and has a sister who is much older so he was the only child around for a while after his sister moved out.

My fiance has many ailments and he happened to have a cold last week when we went to visit. FMIL took notice and went digging in her cabinets and…

She is such a bitch that she doesnt even spare her own father and siblings
Of course the son will never see that, I get married and after fifteen days my husband returned to work. I couldnt join as my visa was yet to be approved. I spent 5 month with the bitch. May God forgive me but I need to vent out or else I act passive aggressive towards my husband. The whole five months were nightmare. Looks like she went to a “sly bitching” academy. She talks nicely but you later realise that it was a snide remark. She even teased me because I was exceptionally taller in her family. She made me work and clean the whole house like a maid when her older DIL and son went for vacation. She would bitch about the older DIL and her mother. She would sit and gossip and bitch with…