Mother-in-Law HELL

Hello all
Almost a year ago I married the man of my dreams. a great man that I was dating for 5 years.  Well long behold, the man of my dreams unfortunatly tied to his mothers umbilical cord. The reason I didnt know this from the get-go is because we come from different backgrounds. I am turkish, speak turkish, and have non-english speaking turkish parents. He has the same feautures but in indian version. Anyways, my husband proposed to me and I was the happiest ever, that is months later when we were wedding planning. Then she (the MIL) started butting in. She insisted that I wear indian wedding gowns to the ceremony and reception. My dream was always a white wedding dress. Then she told me I had to wear these ugly plastic braceletes for a year, wanted the wedding in india even though me nor my family are…

Well, I have this complicated “relationship” with my MIL. I don’t even know where to begin, since I started dating her youngest son, I realize how overprotective she was. Her son (my now husband) was 24 when we met and she would call me in the middle of our dates to see at what time he’ll get home. He wouldn’t answer the phone and she’ll go nuts and would have his older brothers call him to make sure he was still alive or something. Anyways, that just shows how annoying, manipulative and way overprotective she is. When I went to my then bf house, she would tell me in private not to make her son spend too much money on our dates and not to send him home so late…How ridiculous! I told my then boyfriend what his mom was telling me and he would have big arguments back at…

… who is disgusting obsessed with my husband and will not let me near him when she’s around. It’s like I’m dealing with his crazy ex girlfriend!!!!

I’ve been married to my husband for 4-1/2 years, we’ve only known each other for 5 years. This starts the first problem with my MIL.
Since day one, My mother in law has despised me b/c she did not get to pick me out for her son. I was some strange girl who was from another state, who her son brought home one summer. She has controlled my husband his entire life and when she felt loss of control she would then resort to violence and abuse, nobody would believe this story however since she was raised in a southern baptist church and was so far up the bibles butt she would never do no wrong. RIGHT!
We met in Hawaii and lived in Hawaii for…

Can we go to counseling and send my MIL the bill? she’s the only reason why we need it. lol

Are ALL MIL’s psycho, or is it just the ones that have the sons that you marry?

So my daughter’s 5th birthday is this week. My husband and daughter usually go visit my MIL on Sundays while I do the usual weekend errands. I typically o with them 2 Sundays out of the month. Well yesterday I did not go with them however, I would have had I known that my MIL was throwing my daughter a birthday party. I mean, a hire a clown, invite all of the children from the neighborhood, cake and ice cream type of party. I had no idea of this until my sweet baby came home last night and asked me why I didn’t come to her birthday party. I was so upset after being completely left out of that special day for her. Don’t get me wrong, I’m glad that my daughter is so lucky to have 2 parties, but can mom get an invite?? What makes it worse is…