Mother-in-Law HELL

I have been with my fiance for 3 years now. In the beginning everything was great..he has a younger brother who is 20.  He started dating this girl and ever since then I have been treated horribly by my FMIL…
She ignores me and only hangs out, calls, talks to his younger brothers gf. She talks about their wedding and they aren’t even engaged! Anytime she talks to me, its about his gf..they go out to lunch, dinner, movies, everything and never ask me and then she LIES about it! There is soooo much that has been happening.  His gf always complains to her about me for petty things, that don’t matter and I get yelled at and screamed at.
But god for bid I mention something she did that hurt me, she tells me I’m immature and I need to grow up. There is sooo much that I deal with, I’m…

Hi all.. my brother in law has got a bi$%h of a wife.. she is in constant self created competition with me and never lets go of any chance she gets of stabbing me in my back
one thing that she does is whenever she visits me she talks less with me and stares more and keeps giving me the looks as if she is judging me and making opinions about me in her head.. this embarrasses me a lot and makes me self conscious but I dont know how to handle that.
I tried the ’staring back’ method but that made me even more uncomfortable cause I just cannot do that to anyone!  What should I do to make her stop this? Sometimes I just want to slap her on the face for this!! ARGHHH

I’m so glad I found this site, until now I have felt like I have had no one to vent with and no one that understands how I feel.
Let me start off by giving a bit of information. I have been with my fiance for just over 4 years. We have a son together, he is 4 months old:)
My fiance has a younger sister, a mother and a step-father.  My fiance and I have known each other for 11 years. 5 years ago when we were just beginning to hang out again his sister LOVED me, she wanted to go shopping, out for lunch, coffee anything.. she loved being around me. She HATED  My fiance gf at the time. When My fiance broke up with his then gf and started dating me his sister turned into the meanest little thing you can imagine. She would text me and tell me that he…

There is just so much crap that has gone on between my in-laws and myself, I dont know where the heck to start! I apologize if my story is all over the place, there is just so much that has gone on, its hard to get it all into one little post! lol My husband comes from a Portuguese family, he has 2 sisters, and his mom and Dad.

My husband’s family has always had it out for me since day one because I believe they are racial. They are 100% Portuguese, and I am not..They CAN NOT STAND anyone that is NOT the same nationality as them, which to me, sounds like racism. In my opinion, that is COMPLETELY unacceptable.

Anyway, so you get a little background information about his family- My husband is 29 years old. His younger sister (she is 26 years old) is married and has a son.…

My husband and I have been married for 9 months and dated two years prior to that, and ever since I met his sister, she has been the bane of my existence. My husband and I just had our first child, a little girl, and she cannot stand it when anyone in this family pays attention to anyone other than her. She complained about how much stuff we got at our baby shower vs. her, how many people came to the hospital to see us vs. her when she had her baby, the list goes on and on. She has a three year old little girl, and I know she’s my niece, but this little girl is a heathen. She has no discipline in her life whatsoever, and gets everything she wants (my SIL has an income that can afford this). If my MIL or FIL ever mention something about…

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I’ve been married for 7 months. My husband has one sister, 35, with two kids 2 and 3.5. From the beginning, (he didn’t introduce me to her before we were engaged) so I think she was a little t-d off, but we lived across the country from her. Well, now that he and I have moved to the same city (40 min. away) from her for his job, it is VERY AWKWARD when we go to her house. I am a sensitive person and I try to crack jokes, be nice, ask questions about the kids, etc…. but the atmosphere is SO FORMAL, oppressive, and awkward because not only is she socially awkward, but she makes competitive comments. My husband doesn’t always pick up her “off” comments, but a girl knows….. You know? I just hate going to their house because her values, are completely opposite mine and she makes…