Mother-in-Law HELL

Please help! I have the worst sister-in-law and need some advice on how to deal with her. I’ve always sensed that she didn’t like me even though I’ve been nothing but nice to her. There are a number of things that she has done that are just hateful.
1. She was 30 minutes late to my wedding. We waited for her until we just couldn’t anymore and she showed up just as I was walking down the aisle. Then, she had the audacity to get upset that we started without her without even an excuse for why her family was late.
2. When I got into law school, my mother-in-law told me that my SIL was telling everyone in the family that she didn’t believe that I got in or that I was even smart enough to pass the test. I had decided not to pursue law school, not because I didn’t…

My boyfriend and I just recently moved in with this mom, she is allowing us to live here until we are done with college. Things are not bad, we got to get a dog, and we can come and go as we please, BUT he has a 10 year old sister who might as well as be still in a baby seat with a bottle and a blanket.
She is probably the most annoying child I have ever met. She hangs on my boyfriend (her brother) constantly, whining when she doesn’t get her way, she acts like a baby in all situations. She uses baby talk all the time, at times it’s even hard to understand her. Example instead of saying “Brother” she us “Brubber” she is TEN!!!
She almost failed some of her classes last year, and her mom still allows her to do cheerleading at a special gym. Good or…

OMG! I swear she would have to be the bossiest person that I have ever met. Even though I am not engaged to my bf just as of yet, he still considers me apart of the family and in the sense he is as the same at my home. BUT! When I comes down to his sister in law, my god the claws and the beast have finally emerged. At the start, (over a year ago) she is fine, she liked me, or so I thought, and included me in things as she would, but when his nephew was born last november I noticed just how much of a really bitchy person she could be. She was controling and is so controlling over her husband, his brother, that she is even telling him that he can’t play his fav summer sport unless he is in the same team as his…

So here goes my story… Long one so I hope you can hold onto it. I am together with my boyfriend for 3.5 years now, although I’ve known him for 4.5 years and we live together for 2 years. We are from different countries, with different languages. So we speak English and the brother/girlfriend speak English too, although she claims of course that she doesn’t know English. (Funny thing as she does know how to play games in English or put CV’s on the internet in English) When I met him he was living already with his brother and the girlfriend. The girlfriend and the brother are together for about 6 or 7 years now. The ages that we’re talking about here are; boyfriend 29, me 25, the brother 27 and the girlfriend 28. So the girlfriend is a very dominant person, she doesn’t has much female friends. (I can…

The ring…the day a girl is supposed to be happy right? October 2009 we got engaged and that is when it all went downhill. The MIL wanted a wedding her way and made us feel guilty about EVERYTHING we did, the SIL told us that she wanted nothing to do with the wedding and from that day forward she has made my life a living hell. We’ve been married for about two months now and we both want a divorce. Six emails a day from the MIL. Its her way or the highway. She makes you feel guilty about not doing what she wants. She doesn’t think I should be having children and the fact that I am trying to get pregnant at the age of 30 isn’t good enough either since her daughter had to get engaged since she couldn’t handle me getting engaged, but I’m now ruining her…

She says she is being helpful but I don’t like the sound of this.

SIL has a side business where she cooks food for people. She is not licensed by the board of health and I’ve seen the way the house is kept. I digress.

So my husband’s weight has been an issue for a while. He is not terribly overweight. He just needs to loose a couple of pounds. I am cooking healthy for him at home and packing lunches for him everyday at work. He is NOT going to the gym on a regular basis and has a job where he sits down all day. I feel that it’s not my cooking…it’s the lack of working out.

So my husband comes home the other day and says to me that he was speaking to his sister on the phone and she told him that she would like to cook for him…