Mother-in-Law HELL

My story did not get completed so here is the rest….
I have been trying to deal with that in the mean time the house was broken down for redevelopment and we had to shift to the other apartment which was small so me and my boyfriend decided to stay separate Boy dont even ask what I had to go through to make it happen that entire 15 days were a nightmare!! Now as his mom on a vacation so she asked us to keep his grandmother for few weeks and since the time she has come to stay with us its like a hell she told my BF now you are washing dishes which you never did before but she doesnt see is I am doing everything we dont have a maid as both of us are out 5 days a week for work so we didnt see the point…

Hi Guys I am a new member and First of all I need thank all of you for making me feel like I am not alone…

First I would like to set some facts,

1 I am not married yet,

2, I am in a live in relationship for the last 2 years,
(and Im in India) my mother thinks I stay in a hostel so that makes it more difficult as I cant go to her for help.

3, Before We started living separate I lived with him and his mom and nana for a year (she invited me and used to say Im like her daughter)

4, As everyone else’ s story it started great but now I feel like Iam living in a day to day hell always anticipating whats gonna happen next to throw me into whirlwind,

I love my guy, and unlike others he has been standing up for me all the…

I dont want to say much.. This is just so that I get it out of my system.. We got married about an year ago.. When we were back in India, my MIL was really controlling.. She knew what clothes I had.. Inspected everything.. She insulted my mother and my grandmother at the wedding..Fussing about silly things.. She and my husband got together and stopped me from seeing my mom and picking her up from a point.. She has control over my assets.. Which is back in India.. I feel very bad.. I cant stop the control and my husband denies that his mother is wrong.. His mother insults my mother a lot, says nasty things in a very subtle way..My husband adores his mother as she lives away from her husband and supports her life financially..He is nice to me here.. but I know when I go there things…

Hi I am Mandy.. my MIL is a maniac and even after 6 years of marriage she cant even stand me and the kids in the same room with her son and herself..her son being the biggest MOMMY’S BOY in the world..whenever he speaks nice to me or does something nice for me she gets angry and upset and starts taking out her anger by creating awful and tense situations for us.. Me being the prime target of her criticisms and outrages..my husband is just helpless in front of her, loves her to death and knows that the only way to satisfy her is to show her that he gives a shit to his wife and he actually does all this to satisfy her and when I complain he just starts showering me with his apologies when we are alone and asks me to understand him as a wife.. he…

Indian soap operas are destroying many many lives cuz all these indian soaps are trying to do is tell everyone that a good DIL is a woman who crushes herself her personality her very being for her inlaws.. Gets abused by everyone and doesnt protest one bit.. And doesnt say a word even if she is being tortured to death!!! And then there’s the bad DIL one who is even willing to burn herself with oil and fire just so she can put the blame on her saintly parents in law.. No normal person can be a good DIL.. For heaven’s sake ppl stop these satans from brainwashing the minds of millions of indian and pakistani men and their mothers (who are oh so eager to make their sons watch all this to brainwash them) plz do something!!!
All these soaps are very very popular in both countries and destroying thousands…

When people come to know about my divorce they assume that my husband was alcoholic. He was not an alcoholic, he was mother-holic and his mother was son-holic. The words mother-holic and son-holic are not found in English dictionary. I have coined these 2 words as these 2 species exist only in Indian culture. Being extremely possessive of their son is a disease which affects many women in India. I am listing all the symptoms of this disease here The first and the most important step is to raise your son in such a manner that he has no individuality and he is not capable of making a single decision himself. By doing so you will ensure that he will never have a love marriage. His marriage will always be arranged by you and he can never stand up for himself or his wife. Always speak in English and declare…