I wrote a couple of days ago, and you ladies gave me great advice. Some of you asked if my FH defends me. Yes he does, however he has had enough of this too, even though its killing me, he is telling me not to let it bother me. But he does defend me. I wrote in about how my FMIL ignores me and her idol is my FBIL’s gf. Well the latest drama is, a few months back gf talked shit about me behind my back, and she says to me we are all entitled to our opinions, so I said ok in that case I think your fake. And OMG did that open a can of worms, she went crying and crying to FMIL and I got so much crap for it! So anyways on recently facebook, gf did one of those quizzes and in the end of…
meddling future mother in-law is BACK :(
by starry on 03/09 @ 2:52pmMy fiance and I just got engaged recently. We had wanted to get engaged 6 months ago, but decided to wait, since his family was convinced he wasn’t ready yet…his mother was extremely meddlesome at the time…we put up for it for several months..we even had a confrontation about it (she forced me into her house and made me talk to her and her husband about marriage).We even ended up breaking up for a little while. We got back together and even secretly dated again until we knew she knew we were dating again…and stopped hiding it. Since we dropped the idea of marriage for a long time, the meddling stopped, however I avoided her house as much as possible. I am sure she could tell I felt uncomfortable around her. She is extremely controling, manipulative, domineering, opinionated, pushy, and almost seems like she has some sort of personality disorder.…
This is taking a toll on our new family
by Liz on 03/08 @ 11:33pmOn our floor there are 2 extra bedrooms that were empty…one of which now that my daughter is born, is being used as a storage room for her things… The other room ,my Bf’s cousin and her son moved in after being kicked out of an apartment that she rented from a friend for 9 years…. Thats where my mil and I relationship went down the drain…. One day while riding in the car with my mil she told me that her niece, the woman that lives on the same floor as us, text her, and told her that she sees that my mil doesn’t have time for her because all she does is hang out with me and that my she doesn’t even call her to run errands and etc with her because of me…
I felt offended…. and after having so much rage in me I told my mother…
I am at witts-end!
by Confused on 03/08 @ 3:30pmMy boyfriend and I have been together a little over a year. I admit, we moved fast. I got pregnant early and our baby girl is now 6 months old. My boyfriends mother came to visit and she is staying for 3 weeks. I am so heartbroken, upset, angry, nervous, depressed… anything negative to name.. I’m it. I don’t mind his mother coming to visit and I’m not saying I hate her I just am having a very, very hard time dealing with this situation.
I will try my best to describe it. I really need help. I am at the point where I feel like leaving my relationship and I desperately need advice.
I take my son to school in the morning and its about a 20 min drive to get him there since we recently moved. The school year is about over so we decided not to transfer him until…
Crazy M-I-L Ruining my life!
by lizzy5700 on 03/08 @ 3:15pmSo I have been dating my boyfriend now for about 4 years. We had a daughter who will be 2 at the end of this month. When I was first introduced to his mother, we got along. I always knew she was a little “off” but I didnt mind. While I was pregnant, I was nannying for a little boy who was absolutely amazing. I knew that I wouldnt be able to keep the job when I had my little girl, so I told my mother in law that she could take it. She ended up taking over the nanny position….BAD IDEA. I found out she has a drug problem, not so much a specific drug, but basically she is addicted to anything that will f**k her up. So, long story short, I called the parents of the boy I was nannying for and told them that she should not…
I cant take it anymore!
by SFDIL on 03/05 @ 8:05pmAdvice, Future Mother-in-law problems, Sister-in-law from Hell 5 Comments
I have been with my fiance for 3 years now. In the beginning everything was great..he has a younger brother who is 20. He started dating this girl and ever since then I have been treated horribly by my FMIL…
She ignores me and only hangs out, calls, talks to his younger brothers gf. She talks about their wedding and they aren’t even engaged! Anytime she talks to me, its about his gf..they go out to lunch, dinner, movies, everything and never ask me and then she LIES about it! There is soooo much that has been happening. His gf always complains to her about me for petty things, that don’t matter and I get yelled at and screamed at.
But god for bid I mention something she did that hurt me, she tells me I’m immature and I need to grow up. There is sooo much that I deal with, I’m…
wedding planning hell
by marilynmonroe on 03/05 @ 3:07pmLet’s start by saying I am a girl that comes from little money and high values. I also have a real knack for interior design, I am currently in school for interior re-design and home staging.
My mother-in-law-to-be is a spender, and very opinionated. We are both Taurens which are known to but heads. Every time I start to feel like we are connecting I loose respect for her. I find out my fiance went hungry as a child because she was too busy watching soap operas to make lunch when he walked half an hour in a blizzard to get home from school.
The other day when we were talking about the wedding she told me (referring to my list of five DIY projects) That nobody was going to want to help me and I’m being a Bridezilla !!! I am planning a super small wedding for $5000 ( which doesn’t…


