This is my first time posting, I hope you guys can help me, its defently a MIL Hell situation!
Currently.. I am at wits end.. breaking point, and I just don’t know where to turn next.
My future MIL to be has made my life hell for the last 2 years. I am originally from Canada, and future husband is from Scotland. I made the move over a year ago to be with him and im starting to regret my decision more than anything, especially now we just bought a house..and theres no turning back..
Ever since I moved over she made remarks constantly, mainly I think because while I lived in Canada her son came over and we were planning to get married there. BUT! His mother did not want that, she rufused to be there and demanded that this wedding didn’t happen.
Me being stupid, i let it be, we made plans, filled out the forms and I moved to Scotland. We held off the engagement for over 6 months. When we went to my home for a visit, he then purposed properly .. but once we arrived back in the UK … her nose went up, no welcome to the family.. and then I don’t know how many times took him aside asking if this is what he actually wanted along with many rude/hurtful remarks…
Now the new trouble is his grandmother,
One day out in town with a friend, she saw us hugging before I caught the bus home.. and that turned into me doing the dirty on her son!
All of a sudden I am literally hated throughout his parents, gran, and brother!
I couldnt say it hasnt caused problems between us, but he never doubted me when I oviously said nothing happened ( I was out with your best mate who is his best man going over wedding details, along with hitting the shops and grabbing some lunch! )
But no matter what I have said, they still think im sleeping around..
HELP!
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2 Responses to “breaking point–please help me!”
WEll i think that you should just set aside and talk to them the way they sent h im aside and talk to him.. Explain to them if not then you need to move back..show him that your playing games and when it hits him that your really gone he will miss you and his family will see that he is hurt and its there fault.. so maybe that will change everyones mind about you.. good luck
Well.. what you have to do is sit al of them down just how they sit him down and make rude comments about you..you need to clear your name and set the situation straight..OR you can move back show are serious you are and then he will your absence and then he will see too, then his family will see how hurt he is and that it was THERE fault.. so then maybe they will change for him..GOOD LUCK