This woman is the most manipulative person imaginable. She believes she has the wisdom of the ages when she is as shallow as a puddle. Heaven forbid that you fail to sit at her feet and absorb her wisdom.
She dangles money, but we don’t take the bait like the others have. You can bet that it comes with strings attached. She wants to be able to control our lives at her whim, insert herself where she does not belong.
Every time she has used her money to ‘help’ someone they end up hating her for it because she starts to direct their lives.
She had the audacity to order my husband to drop everything and get to her house without even telling him why! She did not however offer to pay for the expense. THEN THE KICKER: Don’t bring your wife!
We both saw through it immediately and after my husband phoned her they had a falling out and that was the end of it. At least on our end.
This woman needs to understand that adult ‘children’ are adults. We make our own decisions and unless we ask for advice we don’t want it.
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3 Responses to “All Hail The QUEEN BEE!”
I’m sorry life is difficult with your mother-in-law. Sounds like you really tried. My D.I.L. has no problem sharing our problems with the world through her Web Site. The poor thing tries to slam me on her site in every way she can. I feel sorry for her more than anything. My advice is to just try to get together with her and a counsellor. Get some advice from a professional before it just gets out of hand.. hopefully your M.I.L. will think your worth her time and effort. If not just try to let her know once every few months your still willing to work It out.
I’m sorry life is difficult with your mother-in-law. Sounds like you have really tried. My daughter-in-law has no problem with sharing her side of our problems on her web site. The poor thing tries to slam me on her site everyway she can. I feel sorry she thinks trying to ruin
someones reputation for her enjoyment is necessary. My advice is to get together with your mother-in-law and a counselor. Get some advice from a professional before it gets out of hand. Try to set some boundaries. Hopefully your mother-in-law will think your worth her time and effort. If not try to let her know every few months your ready to work things out.
Best wishes LAURIE
We have no problem with her because we don’t invest much in her. I think that really galls her, too. Tough luck, if she hadn’t made me feel like an outsider all this time perhaps she would have a bit of credibility. After 20 years though, her window of time has almost disappeared. Sorry about your being maligned on a webpage, but after all, who reads it anyway? Just your DIL friends, and anyone else can make up their own minds about you hopefully.