Mother-in-Law HELL

This is my first post…and of course like most of us DILs, I have no idea where to begin.
Alas, here it goes: When I first met my FMIL over a year ago I thought she seemed normal enough. I was dead wrong (again like most of us DILs are). This woman has showed me what pure evil is.
While me and my fiancee’ were dating she would listen in on our phone conversations and anytime we got into a little heated discussion she stepped in to give her opinion. Is it just me or is a relationship supposed to be between two people and not three? My fiancee’ has gotten better but he used to allow this behavior.
The more serious me and my fiancee’ got, the more horror stories I started to hear from this woman’s other DIL. I shrugged them off until I started to experience some horror stories of…

I have a mother in law that has a ton of health issues, on top of that is always seeking my fiance for financial support. She is often in a depressive state because her three children are never around. She calls threatning to kill her self and often crying seeking attention. She loves for my fiance to trat her like a baby. It is so annoying and I can’t stand it. I have started to express myself to my fiance but I feel I am doing it in a rude manner. How can I be polite when expressing to him that she is an attention seeker is manioulative and needs to get on with it? Its always all about her, she never plans anything for her kids, she wants everyone to do for her but she never does for anyone,

My in-laws act pretty weird around the holidays, and my mother-in-law always leads the pack. One day I come home from work and my teenage boys are upset. They tell me that they answered the door and Grandma was out there. She just shoved her way in the door without a word, marched over to the fridge, yanked the door open, and stomped back out the door, taking our very large raw holiday turkey with her!
My plan was that I would cook the turkey early the next morning and we would all have a big feast, just like we do every year. The MIL and other in-laws were invited to the feast, and I really can cook up a great holiday meal.
So I call my MIL to see what is going on, and she can’t come up with anything that makes sense. (No she is not senile, she was in…

My mother-in law she can be funny however she is lazy drunk.Since I moved here,never have any help from my husband family,which is her mother or father.They are not family orientated they rather be in the pub drinking than be with the family in any situation.Im always feeling angry inside because everytime they need anything im always ther for them.This is the same with my husband hes never there for me when needed him most.In the year 2001 I have my son,and all my mother in-law given me was a baby clothes thats came from oxfam.Is not as if thwey cant afford to buy anything really .Then my dad send me a letter that he wanted to see me ,because he is very ill and he may not see me at all anymore and my mother in-law and my husband wont even let me go home to philippines and bear…

My ex-husband and I ended our marriage after 12 years. It was rough at first, but now we are pretty amicable. Of course her son did no wrong in causing the divorce according to her. I got tired of his repeated credit card addiction… then finally internet porn! Of course the mother-in-law says that his porn addiction was normal! The credit card addiction was my fault too, according to her. She has enabled him throughout his life, and he was looking for that in a wife.

Even though it has been five years ago, she makes ugly comments to my children about me. She still goes on and on about how my ex-husband can do better than me etc. He doesn’t confront her because he is financially dependent on her. Any suggestions?

I’m at a loss. I have been dating my boyfriend for the past two and a half years and we were about to get engaged. We selected the ring together (he wanted to make sure that it was exactly as I wanted) and he booked a romantic trip for us, where he intended to propose. It is two days before the trip and his crafty witch mother has done everything in her power to ensure that my boyfriend and I break up. Although we did not break up, he has now told me that he does not want to marry me and we need to talk to a professional if we are to stay together at all. Here is the background…
His mother has 4 boys, my boyfriend being the eldest. She is 62 (he is 30). She is divorced and hates her ex (curses every time his name is mentioned…

Hi, I have been married ten years, with my first child (now 5) I updated everyone in the family as I knew things (during pregnancy). We are not close now and wasn’t back then either. Basically just talk when something happens or she wants to ask me something. I made it clear to everyone (all family is in same town) that I did NOT want anyone in the delivery room except my husband. My mom had no problem with it, neither did my sister, but HER.. yea her comment was “well I’m going to be in there”. So when it came down to it, I was induced so everyone knew what morning I was going in. we told everyone we would call when we got settled but of course she didnt wait for that call, she called the hospital- got our delivery room phone # and called that to check…