Comments on: I’m scared that mother in law will not know her place http://motherinlawhell.com/2009/09/im-scared-that-she-will-not-know-her-place/ Mother-in-Law Advice and Mother-in-Law Stories Thu, 09 Sep 2010 04:08:54 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: guitargal89 http://motherinlawhell.com/2009/09/im-scared-that-she-will-not-know-her-place/comment-page-1/#comment-7357 guitargal89 Sun, 13 Sep 2009 13:59:57 +0000 http://motherinlawhell.com/?p=3373#comment-7357 Oh just a correction,my girls are due in December, not Feb. silly me..lol Oh just a correction,my girls are due in December, not Feb. silly me..lol

]]> By: guitargal89 http://motherinlawhell.com/2009/09/im-scared-that-she-will-not-know-her-place/comment-page-1/#comment-7356 guitargal89 Sun, 13 Sep 2009 13:59:28 +0000 http://motherinlawhell.com/?p=3373#comment-7356 Oh just a correction,my girls are due in December, not Feb. silly me..lol. Oh just a correction,my girls are due in December, not Feb. silly me..lol.

]]> By: Disrespectful Daughter-in-Law http://motherinlawhell.com/2009/09/im-scared-that-she-will-not-know-her-place/comment-page-1/#comment-7354 Disrespectful Daughter-in-Law Sat, 12 Sep 2009 22:00:05 +0000 http://motherinlawhell.com/?p=3373#comment-7354 Oh, you realy must read the book called, "The Mother" by Pearl S. Buck. It puts the whole MIL thing into perspective quite well. You will see how deftly the DILs tune out the MILs! Oh, you realy must read the book called, “The Mother” by Pearl S. Buck. It puts the whole MIL thing into perspective quite well. You will see how deftly the DILs tune out the MILs!

]]> By: Disrespectful Daughter-in-Law http://motherinlawhell.com/2009/09/im-scared-that-she-will-not-know-her-place/comment-page-1/#comment-7353 Disrespectful Daughter-in-Law Sat, 12 Sep 2009 21:58:50 +0000 http://motherinlawhell.com/?p=3373#comment-7353 Time to grow that thick skin. Do it before the babies arrive. Right now, all she can do is talk. Once the babies arrive, the meddling and unwanted advice will start in earnest. Sit down with hubbs and write down that list of Granny rules. Give them to her and make sure she understands them. Learn to tune out her comments, like she hadn't even opened her mouth. Who cares what she says or what she wants regarding your children. You are going to do it your way anyhow and your husband is going to support you in that. This is all you need. Time to grow that thick skin. Do it before the babies arrive. Right now, all she can do is talk. Once the babies arrive, the meddling and unwanted advice will start in earnest. Sit down with hubbs and write down that list of Granny rules. Give them to her and make sure she understands them.

Learn to tune out her comments, like she hadn’t even opened her mouth. Who cares what she says or what she wants regarding your children. You are going to do it your way anyhow and your husband is going to support you in that. This is all you need.

]]> By: louise http://motherinlawhell.com/2009/09/im-scared-that-she-will-not-know-her-place/comment-page-1/#comment-7345 louise Sat, 12 Sep 2009 16:56:20 +0000 http://motherinlawhell.com/?p=3373#comment-7345 You need to start blowing much of this crap off. You don't need the stress while you are carrying twins (you don't need it with a single baby either). Get your hubby alone and make out your granny rules that MIL will have to follow. Start training her in what is gonna happen......just learn to tune out her verbal plans. She should learn fast enough, if she doesn't follow them she can be out the door quick as quick can be. Get her on the list for low income housing and see how long it will take to get her qualified to move into her own place. You need to start blowing much of this crap off. You don’t need the stress while you are carrying twins (you don’t need it with a single baby either). Get your hubby alone and make out your granny rules that MIL will have to follow. Start training her in what is gonna happen……just learn to tune out her verbal plans. She should learn fast enough, if she doesn’t follow them she can be out the door quick as quick can be. Get her on the list for low income housing and see how long it will take to get her qualified to move into her own place.

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