Bitched out on the Beach
by hopelessly in love on 06/18 @ 3:14pmI know I said there were many stories to come and I just hope this helps other people out there realize they are not alone. After several months of dating her son, I was invited to come to the beach with the family for the weekend. I graciously accepted and made sure to go out of my way to bring food and wine (her favorite meal of the day). We went to the beach and brought all of HER things including her coolers full of wine and appetizers, all he creams and potions and of course two wigs just in case.
We were all seated on the beach she had her glass of wine that her servant husband poured for her as always, and they decided to move closer to the water. My boyfriend and I stayed where we were in order to watch all the bags and coolers etc. Mark went down closer to the water to grab a water and I could hear them arguing. Next thing I know she was stampeding towards me and starts SCREAMING at me on the beach in front of literally hunderds of people. She went off about how this was her family vacation and that I was not really welcomed. She said before me they were just fine, her, her husband, her daughter, and son. She went on to say that she didnt approve of my job (I make more than she ever did and went to college), or how I folded HER laundy or put away the dishes at HER house. I tried to explain that I never meant any disrespect and she only yelled louder. I sat there in shock that this was really happening at this moment. She stormed off her wig flowing in the summer air, and all I could think was HAVE ANOTHER GLASS OF WINE YOU DRUNK! Of course I am too sweet and too soft spoken to ever stand up for myself. Girls, be strong and remember to respect yourself, I wish I had!
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4 Responses to “Bitched out on the Beach”
what’s wrong with you? STOP KISSING THIS WOMANS ASS! CHRIST! You should have kicked sand in her face! what did your boyfriend do about it? Your doing dishes and laundry? Are you nuts? DON’T DO ANYTHING FOR HER! And consider not ever seeing her again, yes there are ways around it, if he loves you he will accomodate and not make you be around this f**king nutter!
Ooh, had she told me that I wasn’t really welcome or considered as “family” I would have offered a tut tut reply of my own: “Well then, don’t worry your little ole self, because I don’t think of you as family either. But I love your son way too much to cause a snit, so I am going back to tolerating you childish behavior once more.” Then I’d have yawned loudly, put my wide-brimmed beach hat over my face and got some shut eye.
Why you even bother pandering to her, I have no idea.
I appreciate all the advice and I this situation has been all too trying on my patients and emotions. I am glad to know that I am not the crazy one despite what she says and does. You both are tright and every time I lay down for her to walk all over me I lose apart of myself.
I know you think you love this guy and you probably do but you need to really consider a few things before going any futher in this relationship becuase she is always going to be there and she is always going to be his mother.
Does he stand up to her? As a girlfriend it really isn’t your place to stand up to her. They are family and you are not. Although It was really nasty of her to treat a you or any guest that way.
Is he really worth putting up with her? If he won’t stand up to her I would walk away. You didn’t mention his reaction to this.
If he just appoligized for her actions I would distance myself if he had her appologize for her actions I would say he’s a keeper.
What everyone fails to remember is that the men need to stand up to their mothers when they are out of line. If they cannot do that then they are weak little momma’s boys and ladies you don’t want a boy you want a man. How can you respect a man that won’t stand up to his mother and without respect what kind of life will you have together? These are serious questions.