Mother-in-Law HELL

My question is this; What is a mature and healthy way to deal with a mother in law who has no class and sees my relationship with her son as a threat? She has the mentality of a 17 year old. She overbearing. She tries to meddle in our affairs and tell us how and where to spend our money. She is always judging me and making snide comments about the cleanliness of my home when most of the time she just shows up uninvited. And anyway, she has a cleaning girl who comes. I can’t compete with that. She is far more open about sex than anyone should be, much less a mother. She tries to get details out of me and has given me some disturbing mental pictures about her sex life. She bought me a teddy one Christmas and had me open it in front of everyone.…

My husband and I have been married for 3 years and we have a 4 year old daughter together. Well, we have been trying to have another baby and my mother in law was so against it at first and now all the sudden she was talking to me about having a baby and how good it would be to have a baby in the house. Then she dropped her bomb. She told me that the next baby my husband and I have, we should give it to her to raise as her own. I told her she was out of her mind. So now she is treating my daughter like she is her mother. Trying to discipline her and trying to get her to sleep with her. My daughter has her own bed to sleep in. And she had her kids to raise. She has a 12 year old…

I know it sounds totally obsurd and awkward. Call me paranoid or just overreacting, but I would almost swear that my MIL has a crush on my husband. I suppose some evidence is in order, eh?

+ When we first started dating, we had the unfortunate fate of living together under her roof while we counted down the days til our savings reached “moving out” status. Not only did we have to live there, we were forced to share a bedroom with my husband’s younger brother (who is actually the same age as me). Can you imagine how uncomfortable it is to come home from work to have your future BIL tell you: “Mom says she doesn’t care what you guys do but just wants you to wash your sheets because she says they stink”

+ On the topic of sex, somehow this lady is often trying to butt her nose in…

I really need some advice as my future MIL is really becoming more than a thorn in my side. So many times she has crossed the line and gone way beyond it. Bascially my bf is a mamas boy. He has an older sister who suffers with autism and she is a wonderful girl but she doesn’t know how to do anything for herself. She has no friends, she’s 30 and all she does is sit in her room. She has been offered this course to do and I have encouraged it would open so many doors for her as she’s so talented.she’s an amazing artist) But the MIL refused to let her do it saying she needs to be at home where she can look after her not out socialising.i’m sorry but the girl has passed her driving test and has her own car and drives to see us…

so i have been together with my husband for 2 years now but married for 6 months and have a beautiful 2 month old daughter. we just have one problem that wont go away HIS MOTHER!! wow do i dislike her and well she happens to dislike me too. she is an old lady that is never satisfied and watches and judges every move i make. always complaining about me that im a bad daughter in law cause i never call her, a bad wife cause i dont cook or clean or treat “her baby” like a real wife should. i am 17 years old with a freaking baby you think i have the skills to be a freaking housewife all my life my mom would do everything for me and for her to be judging me for the way i was brought up is totally rude and she is…

Well my mother in law hurt me since day one, she spoke bad about me and my kids, now she came to ask for forgiveness but not to me to my husband, she assumed i forgave her as i am talking to her. Reason is that i am just tolerating her. My husband also doesnt get alone with her but like they say blood is thicker than water,she was in need and he was there for her yet he does call or communicate with him.She always says her son will do anything for her which he proved to me he would when she needed him. I feel that me just tolerating her is enough smiling when she talks to me and when she ask me for something and i can’t help her she pulls her face but when i can give her she is the happiest person ever. Just 2…

I met my partner 3 years ago and we got together pretty fast and settled down fast too. All seemed fine, his Mother was quiet and polite and i thought we got along ok. I was wrong …

I fell pregnant after 4 months together and the terror of the life i have ahead of me unfolded. My partner has an ex, like most people do, and for some strange reason my MIL got it into her head that one day they would get back together because the sun shines out of this girls ass.

I went onto her computer when i was pregnant to check my emails and his mother had left hers open. There infront of me was an email sent to his ex and being a nosy cow i read it.

She had wrote some shocking and cruel things and even to this day it hurts.
She stated that i got…