Mother-in-Law HELL

My MIL is nuts. Before we got married we stayed temporarily  with her and she had tape recorders around the place to listen to us. She stole birthday cards my family sent me and replaced them with her own and signed my family’s name on it.

Well recently she said her boyfriend, a guy she met while he was married but recently he got divorced and now my MIL lives with him, she called us and said he kicked her out and needed help moving her stuff to her boat to live. We live in another state hours away. We went and it turns out she was moving out to scare him into marrying her. He let her move out. Good for him. He thinks she cheated on him, and she did with my husband’s father, her ex.

We helped her move. She kept asking my husband how much he…

I dont like my in laws and dont want any part to do with them. I hate my kids to be around them and hate when my husband is around them. I hate the way my mil talks to my husband I think she never wanted him and she just had to deal with it. i feel she thinks of my kids as something she has to do. Before my first was born she said to me and my husband that i was stupid for having his kid he wont stay around I will be having this child on my own told him he should have let his dna die with him and she would never had him if she new how bad of a kid he was going to be. then i lost a baby at 13 weeks she was happy. had my second child she told us we…

Background: My husband and I will be married for 6 years in May. He was 17 and I was 21 when we got married. I also had a 2 yr old son. Now we have 4 boys and we’re military (Army).

We had to stay in her house after we got married, she expected me and SIL to clean and nobody else when we both worked. When we tried to move out she pulled a huge guilt trip about how she wouldnt be able to afford her bills any more (because we payed her rent and food)! My husband almost didn’t move. Had to move back in with her because the landlord came knocking on our bedroom window at 3am, supposedly to make sure I wasn’t being raped! VERY CREEPY!!!!! Her house was filthy, had roaches and mice and I was the only one who tried to clean it! We had…

Wow, I must say it is nice to read that I’m not alone with these issues…
Where do I even start..
My husband actually warned me about his mother before I ever met her. He said “my mother is not a very nice person. She’s really jealous of everyone else and never has a nice thing to say.” WOW- was he ever right. I’m glad that he see’s what she is really like and not one of those clueless guys I have been reading about on some of the other posts…
The first week that I met him she would call him daily and ask if I had cooked him dinner yet. I can totally cook, but the fact that she kept asking like that (like it determined whether I was worthy of her son or not) was annoying so I wasn’t about to cook anything!! so by the end of the week…

Thanks for sharing your stories. I don’t feel so alone after reading your courageous and honest postings.

I got engaged recently and we’re getting married this summer. We’ll call him A. A and I have been dating for 5 years and very much in love. The sad part is his parents disapprove of our relationship and me. Over the years, I felt that they never gave me a fair chance to get to know me. After all the mean treatments I get from them, I don’t care for their acceptance anymore. Actually, I would be happier to be far away from them. Unfortunately, we live in the same town and my fiance works for them.

The issue is I’m willing to get married as long as my partner stand by my side. But I feel he doesn’t stand up for us or for me or for himself. His parents sit there and…

She calls herself my dear sweet husband’s mother but there is no comparison between the two of them. He a quite well mannered teddy bear with a great love for all people, animals and life. She an evil being with a lust for death and destruction and money. Mammon rules.
If you just can’t give (money) anymore, she will take out a life insurance policy on your name and “pray” or curse you to death. And if “praying” and cursing doesn’t work she will cause a heart attack. Dead you will be, remember mammon drives her.
She will keep at it for years, 23 to be exact and if it still fails she will drive you apart, little by little. Why? To have total control over the son she is protecting. This way she can take some more, drive him insane and maybe he will take his own live. The money, 1…

Me and my husband have been in a relationship since 2006 and it has been drama with his mother since. She calls him (more like stalk) at least twenty times a day. During my first year of college(2006), she would call him and he wouldn’t answer. So then she’d call me and I wouldn’t answer. Then she would call the room phone and we knew it was her so we wouldn’t answer. One day she called my roommate an I was like this s*** has got to stop. She never wants anything. Whenever he answers, she’s just like what you doing. When are you going to come here and spend some time with me and your brother (who is 5 and still wears a f****** diaper-seriously). We go to school, have a 17 month old son and we just got married this past New Year’s EVE. Hello!! We are busy.…