Mother-in-Law HELL

Me and my husband have been in a relationship since 2006 and it has been drama with his mother since. She calls him (more like stalk) at least twenty times a day. During my first year of college(2006), she would call him and he wouldn’t answer. So then she’d call me and I wouldn’t answer. Then she would call the room phone and we knew it was her so we wouldn’t answer. One day she called my roommate an I was like this s*** has got to stop. She never wants anything. Whenever he answers, she’s just like what you doing. When are you going to come here and spend some time with me and your brother (who is 5 and still wears a f****** diaper-seriously). We go to school, have a 17 month old son and we just got married this past New Year’s EVE. Hello!! We are busy. I have changed my number several times. She calls my grandparents and whoever else just to reach us to find out what my husband is doing. He hates this and is still trying to move even further from her. His family told me all his life she has been like that and that’s why he doesn’t like her. Ok so anyway, she watched my son this past V-Day weekend and I decided to give her my number just in case ANYTHING went wrong, she could get in touch with both of us. Now she just doesn’t stop. She’ll call him, text him, and leave him vmails when he doesn’t answer. “Where are you”, “Why aren’t you answering”, “Call me asap its an emergency”. You don’t play with emergencies in my opinion. Yesterday he was in class and she jus kept calling, then she called me and then called him again.
I never answered. When I got to him, I simply told him to check her. He called her and went off. She was like she was looking for him. He finally stood firm and seriously told her, “MA, I was in class. You don’t have to call me all day. I have things to do, I am a grown man with a family.” Then he asked why she called my phone. She said she was looking for him. He was like, “Stop calling people especially my wife looking for me. Text me or call me but stop bugging other people. It may sound harsh but you don’t know this woman, he has to talk this way and I guarantee you this isn’t the end. So she replied with, “well what if it’s an emergency and somethingis wrong with you and I don’t know it.” He was like, “Dont you think she will notify you?” EXACTLY, if something is wrong I will call her but we are fine, we got this. She doesn’t work, never been married and think my husband is her man and her 5-yr-old son’s daddy. That is sick. I have actually had people ask me in their small town does she really like her own son because they have heard things. She is obsessed with him. And when we got married she was furious but thats another story. I jus want to tell her, instead of running up behind us, why don’t you divert some of that energy into getting a job for one, and two, potty-training your freakin son!! He and my 17 month old wear the same sized diapers.